Wouldn't you want the life of the party instead of a "thinker" that's just used to calmly doing what he likes to do all the time?
2007-07-01 06:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe girls find you attractive because you're different. Who wants the typical loud mouth, who always wants to be in the limelight, when you can have a thinker, an independent guy who doesn't follow the crowd?
2007-07-05 09:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a mix between "life of the party" and "thinker," but if I had to choose which one was better, I would go with the thinker. I think the guy who likes solitude - likes to read, for example, and spend time alone and keeps to himself - there is something very mysterious and alluring about him. I don't want a guy who can't do things alone and likes to go out and drink and party and whatnot. They can be too much trouble.
2007-07-01 14:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by trueimage_libra09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhm. the life of the party person ...I think tries to find people acceptance for himself through being the loud person, the party crowds pleaser. you know the life of the party dude, is fun only at parties right? because they drink or forgot their meds or what?
The thinker type probably has a good self image of himself. satisfied and likes himself. thats what I mean.
he probably has a good self image, and i personally like
thinkers cus im not a party person. so why do you ask this
question again? I think both types of guys can be fun. depends on the type of party.
2007-07-08 23:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the "thinker" types! You can actually have a great conversation with them & they are just so much better than the "life of the party" guys.
2007-07-09 11:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a 'life of the party' guy would only be fun for so long... at least for me. You'd get tired of having to share him with everyone else during events and just be together. This is what I'd want, anyways. Outgoing is good...when he knows when to simmer down.
2007-07-01 13:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by firecrackerjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would rather actually have the life of the party. They are fun and you know them well. The loner is mysterious and actually I don't like that. I like to know about his life and know what's going on. Then I feel like I can talk to him and he's not hiding anything.
2007-07-09 11:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by hey there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the loner! he's mysterious! and mysterious usually is around the corner from sexy. The life of the party is fun too, but if he's bust being the life of the party all the time, how is he gonna get next to you, and he'd be harder to get to as well.
2007-07-01 13:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by platinum66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am rather attracted to discreet guys. I love that sense of mystery and that all the other girls don't know what a good thing I have!
2007-07-01 13:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would rather the thinker because ima thinker.. i hate loud parties & people that think they are everything. some people are just frikken lame and embaress the hell out of themself
2007-07-08 23:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by italiangirlx0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet guys may appear mysterious to some females.
But this is not always true.
Everyone has different likes and dislikes.
2007-07-09 12:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋