2007-07-01 06:47:08 · 20 answers · asked by M 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
will she be able to get him for a child support? How can we find out if she's geting welfare? She is repeatedly asking him for money... She is five months pregnant and asking him for money for food & doctors. How can we even know if she is using him for citizenship???
2007-07-01 06:50:22 · update #1
She new we were together and was still screwing him. When he told me about it a month later. I was already 2 weeks pregnant. I do want to leave him but am in the same circumstance. He has been with me everyday and she keeps texting me how it was fun it was to be the other woman. Its hard to get passed this betrayal. he has been giving her money each month but how can he even know if them money is being reported, even if she is receiving general assistance???
2007-07-01 10:26:14 · update #2
Shifting Blame for your cheating boyfriend getting the other woman knock up.
2007-07-01 06:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she can get him for child support. Guess what, honey? That baby is going to be considered an American citizen and it will have all the rights and privileges of any other American. And that baby has the right to be supported by both mom and dad. Just because the baby's mother is an immigrant (illegal or not) that baby will still eat, need diapers, need toys, need clothes, need a doctor, and so on.
The welfare question has nothing to do with this let me tell you why. Say she is on welfare......when your boyfriend is capable of paying support. If the state finds out that she was on welfare when the father should have been paying support......the state can go after to him to get pay back the expenses they covered for her and the baby. So either he can pay the money to the girl now or pay the state back later.
She should be asking him for money. You can't just get someone knocked up and think you have no responsibility. I hope she is calling him day and night.
She may be using him for citizenship but that avenue is no guarantee. Even if she were to leave back to Mexico, daddy still needs to support that child. Whether in Mexico or the US, baby still needs to eat.
Instead of worrying about this woman and why she is asking your boyfriend for money, you may need to stop and ask yourself why you are still with this guy. He is proving to be irresponsible. Sounds like you have bigger problems than this woman. Get a clue, sweetie. He is not a man.
2007-07-01 07:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by Keep on Truckin' 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My exhusband cheated on me, most likely more than once, the last time with my best friend (who obviously wasn't). But I couldn't blame it all on her, he knew he was married, he had the ability to say no. While I was still very upset with her-the blame was with him. As for the relationship? There were faults on both sides but when only one person is willing to work on it then the fault lies with the person that won't even try. Don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering if its happening again? Say goodbye and let him be the dad but not your boyfriend and then stand back and watch the stupidity with the next girl.
2007-07-05 05:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by kanga732 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your need to dump the boyfriend and move on with your life, just because she is Mexican that doesn't relieve your boyfriend of his responsible of his pending fatherhood. Why would you want to be with someone that is so callous forward his future child. Just because I am against illegal immigration that does not mean that I do not believe that you and I do not have to live up to our responsibilities, who do you think is going to pick up the tab if he does not, the tax payer of course
2007-07-01 07:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by jean 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with that? your boyfriend should be taking the responsibility of being a MAN and taking care of the child regardless of her citizenship. plus the baby will be a u.s. citizen. but if wants to be a dead beat that is his choice. you got yourself a good catch, hope he doesn't get you pregnant.
2007-07-01 07:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by da_e_knows 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the bum won't take care of her what makes you think he'll take care of you?
If he got her pregnant and runs out on her and the child what kind of person is he? Do you really want to be with someone like that?
2007-07-01 07:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by barry c 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you really got yourself a winner there. Has it perhaps occurred to you that if this guy takes his responsibilities with this girl and his baby so lightly, you could be next? Tigers don't change there stripes.
2007-07-01 08:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him for a boyfriend if he is going around getting other people pregnant?
And if it is his kid, yes, he has responsibilities.
2007-07-01 07:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by DAR 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she legal? if so don't bother her. It's like she's the whole problem here but she should not, you must have done something wrong for him to have knocked her up.
2007-07-01 10:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you don't see a problem with him knocking up this girl? I suggest you deal with that issue first, if not it will follow you the rest of your life...
2007-07-01 06:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋