2007-07-01 05:43:24 · 11 answers · asked by sonal_2790 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You can't. You can make the choice yourself not to drink, but you cannot make this choice for anyone else. Nobody can help an addict, an addict has to want to help himself (usually by hitting rock bottom first).
Think about your relationship and decide whether you should support him, but make sure to put yourself first. He is your boyfriend, not your husband. If he is draining you and bumming you out over his alcoholism....you should move on before he drags you down. If you want him to quit, and he does not want to....it will never work anyway.
Also keep in mind that if YOU drink, you can't be running around telling him not to because that isn't fair and quite hypocritical. Both quitting together could be a supportive decision if this is the case.
2007-07-01 05:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by sadistwitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you asked him that whether he is loves you, or not ? If he loves you too much then you tell him the bad effect of consuming alcohol. If he stopped, then O. K. Neither don't meet with him in future. What I suggest you, explain him in details, then you will get some good result & both of you will be happy.
2007-07-01 05:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dilip SDIPANKAR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, u can not stop any one from doing anything unless they want tooo... unless u have him locked up.... does he want to? then educate him, get cd's, books, movies, take him to AA or lectures,... You could be saving his life, your life, or someone else.. good luck, if he doesn't then u are not responsible for his actions, and u need to stay away and not be involved at what happens down the road..
2007-07-01 05:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him lol jk
my girl friend got all sad and almost started to cry and so i promised i wouldn't drink no more and its been like umm 4 or 5 months lol yeah
2007-07-01 05:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Felipe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him 2 option n ask him 2 choose 1 from dem-
1. alcohol
2. you
if he really loves u, den he'll leave alcohol
2007-07-01 05:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will leave him!
You can't stop him, as such, but you can show him that his actions have consequences - not just for his health, but for his relationship!
Tough love is best.
My mom told my dad she wouldn't marry him unless he quit smoking, so he did...and the rest is history. LOL
2007-07-01 05:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by fayruz_fiona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to be around him when he is drunk. Refuse to be associated with drinking activities. If he is only drinking a little and that bothers you...find another boyfriend...one that doesnt drink like you.
2007-07-01 05:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Florida Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk, warn him that is a powerful drug. It will alter his state of mind and probably make him obnoxious, and in time will damage his liver.
2007-07-01 05:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Seed Plower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him all the damaging effect of alcohol
2007-07-01 05:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Only he can stop himself.
2007-07-01 05:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋