he has virtually moved in to my place and we are both really happy. is this too good to be true?
should we try to create a bit of distance between each other?
2007-07-01 05:21:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably foolish but what the heck. Even if it doesn't last or grow into anything more, you are enjoying yourselves now and sweet memories are what life is all about.
This doesn't mean that you both should not be prepared for when the other shoe drops. I think a sensible thing to do is to discuss the facts... Like "I really don't want this to end because of my feeling for you but I do want you to promise me that if it does end, we will always be considerate of each other and not think being friends as a bad thing. I'd hate to lose someone like you from my life entirely...' Well maybe I didn't put it in the right words but being prepared to think of the other person's feelings no matter who causes the breakup for whatever the reason .. is something that turns a great time in your lives to something that can be damaging.
Hurting someone or being hurt is not anyones plan and this type of closeness can flip into the depths of hell. That is why most people say "take it slow or pay for it later". Or.. not getting too close until you learn more about each other, you don't risk this downfall.
Just remember Extreme breeds extreme. Then again, there is such as thing as love at first sight.
Hopefully you will both be adults and protect such a gift with adult and responsible decisions. Really caring and loving someone is an unselfish love and their well being should be more important than yours. That is when you know it is real.
Good Luck !! Here's hoping you are both on the same page.
2007-07-01 05:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joanne in Florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, yes. If you spend too much time together like this, it WILL seem nice, but you'll run out of interest quickly. you need to create a little space, then spend a little time. create a little space, spend a little time. maybe do a major thing like a week vacation with your family or something. Everything will be very nice for the next few whatevers, but be sure you keep a little hidden stuff here, a little experience to share there.
2007-07-01 05:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by lightsinge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love is grand ! Society puts way too much crap into a person needing their own space !Love was not designed to be that way !When we marry people are supposed to cleve,two become one flesh ! Even when just seeing each other,it is not good for a man to be alone so God took one of Adam"s ribs and made woman ! People who don"t know the joy of being in love just don"t get it. So God has blessed you !
2007-07-01 05:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that enjoy each others company who knows you just might have found love and that is a beautiful thing
2007-07-01 05:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u two should. becuase it just werid to be with eachother every second of the day. i'm never with my boyfriend every single day.
2007-07-01 05:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by ash_09_15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋