Where do i find a good guy?

Question

Where is the best places to go to find a nice guy? Ladies where did you meet your man? Guys where are you all hiding?
Most guys i meet in pups and clubs are only interested in pulling a girl for a one night stand. Please help been single too long now.

Answer 1

Good guys are all around you. School, work, supermarkets, the house up the street, the park and anywhere you go. The problem is that we're so busy not trying to impress you that you don't notice us half the time. You only notice the "bad boys" and the jerks and leave us nice guys wondering why you keep saying we're what you're looking for but you never give us the time of day. Remember, a truly nice guy is not going to approach a woman he's never met without a clear sign. We're can be very nervous about that especially in this day and age where it seems that so many women, especially in the office, appear to want flirting and the like to be a crime.

Answer 2

I'm wondering where I can meet a nice girl myself as I've been single for quite a while now as well.

But I am in the process of trying to get involved in leisure activities that I have never tried before with the prospect of taking up a new hobby. Maybe you should try to get into a new activity that you enjoy and will meet new people and make new friends like what I'm trying to do. If you do that, maybe you will meet a boy that also enjoys the same things as you or who will invite you along to try out what he likes.

Answer 3

Don't go looking in clubs and pubs as most men are just there to pull or to get drunk !.
Try doing some activities that you like and joining some clubs which interest you ?.
That way your bound to meet someone who shares the same interests as you !.
Good Luck :-)

Answer 4

That really depends on your definition of a good man. It's different for ever woman in my experience as a man. Most men who go to bars are looking for one thing, an easy lay! Look for a good man as you put it where good men hangout, certainly not the local pub...LOL

Answer 5

Tips: Don't pull guys in pub and clubs!
Most men do go out round town to ether get drunk, get laid or both of they are lucky, plus most of them are idiots.
The nice guys are normal not the ones making a fool of themselves, look for the quite group that looks like they are out to enjoy the night, and not the cheap beer and even cheaper women. don't give up, we are out here, just give us a chance.
Hope t his helps.

Answer 6

your obviously going to the wrong places...

the local "meat market" isn't probably best place. drunken people who are more into lust than love is not the best place.

normal places.. even shopping etc u might see someone.. or take up an evening class or something.. dunno depends what your into.

i'm single, but end of the day have no one to answer to.. so does have its pluses..

if i meet someone i meet someone, sometimes if u don't look u have a lot more success.

Answer 7

You will find him when you look inside yourself. The problem is the kind of guys that you are attracted too, you need to change your point of view on men. Nice guys are all around you, you are just failing to see them, that's all.

Answer 8

Try an online dating service, you can meet decent guys there. But I do echo the sentiment that if you look in the bar scene you will end up disappointed

Answer 9

If you look in the sewer, you are only going to see crap.

If you look in pubs and clubs, you will only find one night stands. Think of the kind of guy you want, places you want him to go, and look there. All i can say.

Answer 10

I met mine at work.

But I would say, maybe stop looking, then your Mr Perfect might turn up. Don't think decent guys are around, when you actually look for them.