I am having a relationship with a widower. we were close friends before his wife died and I was his shoulder to dry on during her illness and after she died. we are now lovers. Hefeels guilty about this and so do I at times. However I have been having deams about his late wife. and in them we are all friends together, They are together in my dreams but I am a welcome guest in their house. I know he loved her deeply, I'm not out to replace her what does the dream mean?
2007-07-01 01:56:20 · 7 answers · asked by Ellie G 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You have her blessing in your relationship. Give your gentleman time and he progresses in the grieving process he too wil come to realize this. She is delighted that he is not alone and the two of you are enjoying each others company. She doesn't draw a line between friends and the addition of sex to the relationship. She knows he suffered while she did through the passing process. She does not want him to waste any more time alone or sad. Hope he processes his grief in a timely manner before he loses you.
2007-07-01 02:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the spirit of his wife want to let you know it's ok. That she passed away already and hope that you are not guilty about it and take care of her husband good when she is gone.
2007-07-01 02:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by doglover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to be his wife. Dead people are not totally dead, they still want good things to their loved ones. You are good for her Ex man.
Her house is her heart, "you are welcome Guest"means she doesn't blame you. So marry him, as she did, don't stay in lovers stage.
2007-07-01 03:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by Fan Of Moise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to come in through you, and will to a certain extent. . . And, yes, you are out to replace her.
2007-07-01 02:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its just because you notice how much he still misses her.
2007-07-01 02:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by lmnchcgfl2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its a sign that your husband needs comforting about her death
2007-07-01 02:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by phsexycymbals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably wanted to have sex with her.
2007-07-01 02:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋