I don't think that if i want to attempt suicide is big problem. In my country no one bother about me. I have taken 20 panadol infront of my parent and they say better die faster, then those priests, pastors, scoial worker say that no one can help me and i pray to God everyday, God also can't help you. So i can kill myself anytime i want to. This coming one is my 18th time killing myself but this time i make sure i die (Cutting my wrist). My parent, my brother and sister-in-law use money power and control eveyone even this priests too.
2007-06-30 23:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I know what is life abt. I have every officer in my country and none help me. Everyone is bullying me, cheating me and making life living HELL. I have no money or friends or gal friend or peoples willing to help me. I have is full of fear and i am fcuking depress
2007-07-01 01:14:43 · update #1
If you or anyone is to think of or is thinking of suicide, then immediately call
1-800-SUICIDE
If you need or want to, I am always around feel free to IM or email me for whatever reason that is needed and I will help you with what I can.
People say often (all the time) that suicide is selfish, it is.
That you leave your family at a total loss for you but also for the answer to the major question everyone needs to know and that is WHY? But they will then live their lives as they should because the question of WHY? will never be answered for them because the only person who can answer them is the one who committed suicide. They are gone and with them are all the answers to your family and friends haunting questions.
Then on the other hand, you survive. Yeah! But wait...you are now a veggie, but aware of things. You have tubes going in and out of every opening in your body forever, if you have an itch on your nose...you can't scratch it because you are a veggie. Wait...you can ask someone to scratch it for you right? WRONG, you are awake and aware but that is it. Nothing else so you have no way of telling someone that your nose itches, so now you lay there machines breathing for you, feeding you, peeing for you, drinking for you and everything else and you can't even scratch a little itch on your nose. What a shame.
Don't be foolish no matter how dreadful it seems, there is light at the end of the tunnel and plenty of help along the way to get you thru the tunnel and closer to the light.
Be smart, ask for help. There are so many people around you wanting you to live, wanting to help you, even people such as myself, strangers, but there are no strangers in life, there are strangers in fear.
Be safe and be well.
2007-07-01 02:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need help.Go to your doc and talk about it to them.Have you ever thought that you may do these things in front of your parents as a desperate plea for attention and love?It probably isn't but just m opinion.Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.Please do not cut your self either.I have experience in that it doesn't help,just tricks you into thinking that things get better when in truth they don't.Its like an addiction,a bit like smoking,you need to cut all the time.Well remember and tell yourself that you don't.A few techniques i use is the delay technique.Try telling yourself that if in 10 minutes you still need to cut then you can.When 10 minutes is up try going another 10 minutes and so on.I kept myself up for about 2 days with that technique,and it works.In that incident i didn't cut.Jut please don't make the same mistakes as so many before you.Get help,remember there is so much out there for you in life,hang on in there and wait to discover them.Please e-mail me if you want to talk.I really do understand,i was/am in the same position.Its solieval@hotmail.com
Also every life is precious,god would not want you to give away this amazing chance you have.Hang on in there.
Good luck an god bless you. Happiness is out there you just have to find it.
xx
2007-07-01 07:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kαtydid ★ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should find a crisis centre or some kind of shelter where you can stay for awhile , away from your controlling and un-empathetic relatives. I don't know how old you are. If you work, you could remain in the crisis centre till you are able to move out to a rented place.
You also need to talk to a counselor or seek out support groups (any kind will do for now). Any religious places which you feel may take you in for the time being are also good places.
What country are you in that doesn't have any honest welfare agencies to help its citizens?
2007-07-01 06:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cutting your wrist will not always lead to death. I don't think you want to die. I think you want someone who cares about you. I'm sorry about your situation. Perhaps if you found a social worker in another town and explained the situation to him/her you could get help. Dieing is not the answer to your problem. Overcoming it will be a challenge but you'll be glad you did in the long run. Think of the joy you'll give to someone in the future if you get help for yourself now. I wonder where you live.
2007-07-01 06:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by greylady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are I desperate need of mental help, You have way to much time on your hands to have tried this as many times as you have.Just because you can do away with yourself any time that you want to tells me that you have little regard for the feelings of people that love you, and are a selfish individual that thrives on the sorrow and pain YOU cause others. Eighteen is awfully young to come to this conclusion.Make yourself useful, you would be glad you do in the long run...Sincerely....
2007-07-01 07:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by sha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you dont'... noone knows what tomorrow brings... and i'm sure that you will think clearly if you don't let others affect you, what on earth do they know? how old are you? do you work? change your job, do something radical except preventing your self from having a second chance. we all deserve a second chance... sometimes when your mind and soul are too weak to make happy thoughts, all you have to do is lay on your bed, close your eyes and think that it is ALWAYS darker before the rainbow appears...
maybe the rainbow hasn't appeared to you yet, maybe it needs to know that you can wait.
ok, it takes one hell of patience, but trust me, you don't want to meet hell itself...
fight if you want to make a change. and find someone to help you, there must be someone! or there will be.... i kinda know... life's not easy, no... but it can be the way we want, sooner or later. it can.
2007-07-01 07:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by elenik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, I don't know if you're serious or not...I couldn't tell by your history.
IF you are serious, suicide is not the way. You're so damn young and cutting your life short just isn't fair to YOU. Be fair to yourself and live your life PLEASE. If you're not going to do this for yourself, then do it for ME because I'd hate to see my attempt at saving your life fail.
I'm sure someone out there, wherever you are, cares about you.
2007-07-01 06:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by bobrekrabold 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
welli am sorry about how you feel but if it is true that you have at any time taken 20 paracetamols and not seeked medical help straight away then you will have liver damage anyway by now .
2007-07-01 06:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i had a brother commit suicide dont do it it will destroy a family my family split apart after my middle broher died and you got alot to live for
2007-07-01 06:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't kill yourself. Read John 3.16 from the bible. Things will get better
2007-07-01 07:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋