Im 41 weeks pregnant. When I was 36 weeks, I was tested for all infections(negative) as well when I first discovered I was pregnant. My bf just came to me and told me that he cheated on me in Sept...and may have contracted something bc he's experiencing a non-burning discharge. His dr said it maybe gonnhrea or chlaymdia(both spelled wrong). And hes concerned cause we has sex last week. QUESTION!!--If he cheated in Sept..and I had nothing, and he claims he hasnt cheated since, hows it possible that I may have something now. I thought all STds(except AIDS) show up then. And IF I have something since I was 36 weeks.....that means he cheated..Correct? And is it possible for a male to have discharge and it not be an STi or STD?
2007-06-30 15:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by Sheek 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
it is possible for a male to have a discharge and not have an infection. Until he is tested and finds out why he has this discharge, you won't know. Make sure he gets tested and gets a definitive diagnosis. Then, notify your ob-gyn doc, and get tested again. That he cheated on you, is by his own admission, a fact. But I assume the child is his? If that is so, you have a really tough decision to make. Do you kick him out, or do you forgive him and try to move on. Only you can answer that one.
2007-06-30 15:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be that you got lucky and dodged the bullet and didn't get the STD that your boyfriend now has. I don't think it's possible for him to have a discharge unless he has STD. It's time to kick his butt to the curb for infidelity and endangering you and your baby. Yep, it means he cheated; once a cheater--always a cheater.
2007-06-30 15:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Laredo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he think he caught something? what he may have is herpes, which could take time to show symptoms, but not necessarily this long and you may not have contracted them. you could go in for another test and he the same. hope it works out.
2007-06-30 15:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Juillet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
donno, but its time for u to leave him.
2007-06-30 15:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋