He is the love of my life, i been waiting for this day for years, he says he loves me and that we are going to try again, get engage and marry me. i luv him to death,. if he ever gets STD's he would get fire of his job (just for the type of job that he does)., what am i going to do? i dont wanna loose him, but yet; i dont know how to explain him what i have. i am so scare of loosing him, so scare of what he is going to think of me, and if he leaves me? i dont want him to loose his job. he will be here next month, and first time in 2 years that we see each other again, and this time should be for-good. how or when should i tell him? or should i keep it a secret? since i am on medication he wont get it ( i guess, and hope) i dont know what to do please, please help me :(
2007-06-24 03:14:28 · 6 answers · asked by SG 2 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Be honest take with you some info, Herpes is not a damn death sentence it is nothing more than cold sores either on lips or genitals.
It can be kept in check with Valtrate and he wears condoms so what's the big deal, I can't see how if he was to get it, interferring with his work?
Unless he was a male gigilo LOL BE Honest ♥
2007-06-24 03:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot let fear rule your life, or ruin his, not if you love him. taking medications doesn't mean he can't get it, it only lessens the risk. he most certainly can get it, and if he does and you haven't told him, the results could be worse than him just leaving you. Don't be selfish and stupid, tell him.
The idea of taking information about the disease with you when you tell him is a good idea.
2007-06-24 11:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Not telling someone your infected and then risking them of infection, should be classified as attempted murder. How would you like it if I gave you a drink that gave you molaria? You wouldnt be happy.
2007-06-25 15:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by learydisciple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not spread a disease to any other person knowingly. Please note that genital herpes can not be cured and it will stay till the end of your life.
2007-06-24 13:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by gangadharan nair 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, be fair.. or if you don't tell him and he finds out, you'll lose him for good
2007-06-24 10:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by hygrass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know.
2007-06-28 02:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tasty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋