for example...6 months till sex...2 months till anything sexual..those are just examples.....what is urs?
2007-06-21 15:39:18 · 16 answers · asked by stepho 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time limits SHOULDN'T exist - you go as far with your partner as you feel comfortalbe with. It doesn't matter if it's only been a month - or even two years!
This is one of the keys of "mature" dating - if you can't trust your own instincts, then you souldn't be involved in things like sex in the first place ;)
2007-06-21 16:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1, I think it depends on how old you are and second I think it depends on how comfortable you feel with that other person. I don't think you should jump in the bed with just any guy that comes along, you should make sure there is a connection, and know that if there were to be any complications that you both are ready to deal with them together. So therefore I don't really think there should be a time limit, it's when you both LOVE each other and know that there is nothing you wouldn't do for one another. When and if your partner feels the same way, then I think it's time for sex.
2007-06-21 22:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by jla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person.
I thought my last bf was so hot I had sex with him the first night just in case I never saw him again. Nearly two years later after a lot of ups and downs I have realised I am better off without him and am ready to let him go.. I have realised hot it may be, but he is not the kind of person that will make me happy in the long term. In this instance I should have got to know him first. Would have spared me a lot of pain.
I know of married couples who slept together the first night...
I think if you are meant to be it doesn't really matter what you do. The situation will just flow.
2007-06-21 22:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a time limit --- I just go by how I am feeling and how things are going. I think sex should wait til you know you have some kinda commitment and when you know you are going to be in a relationship with that person for awhile.
2007-06-21 22:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months till sex,
10 years till marraige.
2007-06-21 22:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie knows it all. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the maturity level of the people involved and the dynamics of the relationship.
2007-06-21 22:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till you are both ready and sure and use protection.
i have a friend with herpes that her boyfriend of 8 months gave her now her life is ruined.
2007-06-21 22:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well until your ready is the best advice. just be sure YOUR ready and if your partner is a girl make sure SHE is ready. pushing girls into a corner and demanding it is a big turn off. when she wants it shell let you know. don't be an asshole and think with your dick.
2007-06-21 22:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have none! That's ridicules!
I'd rather just go with the flow and do things when I feel I'm ready.
2007-06-21 22:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have no clue i just started dating again.But im liking the tension its building no sex yet going on uhhh 3 months
ahh heck no kiss either
2007-06-21 22:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋