I moved far from home and lost touch with alot of people...the ones that I kept in touch with are practically my family and I love them so much but their all virgins and my fiance and I are in a sexual relationship...I need people I can talk to about fun positions and games/toys and about what happened when I gave him his first strip/lap dance - I practiced for days and I have no one to talk to about how it turned out! this is driving me crazy because even though he and I talk openly I need girlfriends AND guy friends with similar experiences and advice to offer...
IS THERE A FREE CHAT ROOM WHERE PEOPLE CAN TALK OPENLY ABOUT SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS?
so far the sites I've checked out are all slezey (I may be experimental and fun but I'm not looking for a booty call-I waited until I was engaged to have sex and now I'm in a committed relationship...most sites seem to be just for booty calls!) I know that sex is not "supposed" to be talked about but I'm used to talking about everything-help
2007-06-21 13:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no...I don't have any friends where I live...I moved 6 hours from home last summer and since then have lost touch with most of the people I knew there-except my 4 best guy friends, no girls and all virgins-and I haven't made any new friends here: I work full time in a very professional environment with no one less than 20 years my senior (even the people I supervise are way older than me! and sex is taboo at work-of course)...I'm out of school and have no clue how to make new friends in a town like this! and without anyone (besides my fiance and occasionally a phone call with my boys back home) to talk to about anything in almost a year I feel like I'm going crazy...and...sex is an important part of my life...i'm young and insecure and wanted to have some fun with people my age talking about sex and relationships and other things too and it seems impossible to make any new friends much less anyone I could talk openly about sex with...hopeless: thanx anyway everyone who didn't hit on me
2007-06-21 13:44:00 · update #1
Try this - I have just started up a new Adults Only forum at http://www.sexythings.com.au/forum It's been set up specifically to cater for adults to talk about sex or anything else that interests them.
Have a look and see if it's what you need.
Take care :-)
2007-06-21 20:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by kissthefish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any romantic relationship, sex is like the icing on a cake. If the only thing you do is eat the icing on the cake, you will get mentally sick.
You say you are age 18-21 and unmarried
Depending on what state you and your boy friend are in when you "do it", your sex life may be illegal, so check laws where you plan to travel to.
What you are risking is the both of you ending up in jail, then when you get out, you are both marked for life as sex offenders, having to register your address with police wherever you live, and not being allowed to live near a school.
Many men and women claim to be virgin but are not.
Our society can often seem over-protective of children, and adolescents, because so many predators out there. You need help, but Internet is not good channel due to its inability to limit partipation to appropriate age groups.
There are the people who are supposed to teach this stuff to children growing up, they work for the school system, but they may be heavily burdened with regulations imposed by various interest groups.
There are places like Planned Parenthood. These places may have a bad reputaion in the eyes of some beholders because their counseling includes abortion, along with a whole lot other stuff, but their value is that if you have no friends to turn to, this is a reputable place that gives advice on how you can have safe sex.
Safe Sex = don't get any sexually transmitted diseases
Safe Sex = don't get pregnant until you want to get pregnant & when you do get pregnant what are all your options to maximize the chances of your baby being healthy?
Depending on your religious affiliation and involvement, the church should have counseling for couples who are headed towards marriage. You might think they can't do good job with your needs because priests are not supposed to have any relationship, and many of them got in trouble for extreme naughtiness.
So there is judgement call which institution you go to for help, remembering not to go to those that might turn you in to the jailers.
This is a topic you need to ask Mom about on your vacation.
She may be no help with your sex life, and may in fact have some disapproving words on the topic, so perhaps you want to have a good time at Mom house before you raise this topic. However, Mom ought to be very helpful on the topic of how to find new friends who can be trusted, where you now are residing.
2007-06-22 13:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, I think you HAVE found the right place!
If you're looking for advice, then there are many qood questions that have/are being posted (like yours!) here on Yahoo! Answers...
As for meeting people to talk about it with - I don't know of any places/chat rooms that specifically cater to sex. But for meeting friends in general - who you could open up to in person - try meetup.com
Just search for something that you are intrested in (non-sexual though - such as Tango Dancing) - and find out where other people interested in the same thing (in your area) get together. With that common interest - it will be easier to meet any new potential friends :)
2007-06-21 14:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Rae - run away, run away!
Dunno what to tell you. You're right about chat rooms. Have you considered doing a little "library time?" Are you actually saying that you have no friends where you are now? No girlfriends to chat with?
I haven't the slightest clue as to why I'm even attempting to answer this. I'm a freakin' male!
2007-06-21 13:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by alt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to talk then email me. my boyfriend and I have tried many things. and yes most of the sights are sleazy. also be careful about who you tell your private sex stories to on the web. you never know who it really is.... ( I say this as I told you to email me, I know)
2007-06-21 13:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duno of ne websites, but... lol. me and my chick have been together.. so if you wanna yahoo sometime im me. I have some things to share... And im not some creepy stalker dude. its ok. lol. ill give you my facebook/myspace if u wana check me out first...
2007-06-21 13:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can talk to u.. what is it tht u want to talk abt sex... it's all thre on the net... can get all theanswers u need.. from ivillage.com, cosmopolitan etc website...still if u need write to me will tell u all i can.. ok....
2007-06-22 04:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by troy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll help you with n e thing to do with sex.....positions, stories, experiences, n e thing. what do you wanna know or talk about baby....
2007-06-21 13:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a female strippers to teach you how to give a lap dance.
2007-06-21 13:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋