Ok, i like this guy, and he might like me. Tomorrow is the last day of school and i am wondering if i should do something such as hug him ect. We hang out alot and today he gave me this weird stare right into my eyes. . .it was like he was trying to say something with them. . .but i was too shy to hold his gaze for more than 5 seconds. Should i do something? I might see him over the summer. The day after school ends he is going to Brazil until July 5th, and supposedly he is bringing me some coconuts to my house. . . Should i take a chance and do something like that. . .or should i just say goodbye like it's nothing and i am not going to miss him that much even though I AM GONNA MISS HIM ALOT! Please help! And it has to be soon because the last day of school is tomorrow. h by the way i am in seventh grade so that might help you decide what is best for me to do, so that you dont say something for like 2 year olds to do.
2007-06-21 12:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by picns 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And sorry i spelled Urgent wrong. I am usually a very good speller.. .but i was in a hurry and i wanted to get some answers fast.
2007-06-21 14:25:28 · update #1
Okay, hun.
So, here's the deal.
I have some experience with boys and all.
I realize your totally not a little kid at all! Hugging him does not seem like a biggie to most people, but to you, it might be. So, take it slow, and if you want to, hug him just as a friend-nothing more. If you want to hug him as "more than a friend", go ahead, no problem--in fact, why not add in a little peck on the cheek? If he likes you, he might get somewhat embarrased, but don't worry about it. If he doesn't like you, you'll know. Chances are, if he was staring longingly into your eyes, he's madly in love with you. If he's leaving soon, give him something to think about while he's away. Whatever you do, keep it at your own pace and don't rush things, but also don't be afraid to show some confidence. Guys like confident, but not cocky girls. I hope this helps, if not, I'm really sorry.
Have a super fun summer and don't sweat the small stuff.
~Kara
2007-06-21 12:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Just show him ur interested. If you are not comfortable with making a major first move with him then subtly show him u like him. For example, u said he stared right into your eyes; next time he does this stare back and smile. Or try and catch his gaze and give him an 'i like you smile'. Or, tell him you will miss him and you hope to see him over the summer.
Whatever you feel most comfortable with!
2007-06-21 19:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by prestonfemale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't need to be so aggressive as to sieze him in your arms and smother him with kisses (although a lot of guys like a woman who take initiative)! Why don't you approach him, look into his eyes and ask "yesterday, you seemed to want very much to say something important to me, I would really like to know what it was" look into his eyes when you say this, smile and be friendly. (You could even take one of his hands gently in your's when you say this). Good Luck!
PS if you are able to "catch" him, you've really got your job cut out for you to keep him yours! The girls in Brazil are extremely hot!
2007-06-21 19:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing not to do: kiss him, he may not like you , a way u can move in on the kiss is togive him a long hug and stare into his eyes and if he starts to move then maybe everything will come out well and the two of you will go out. best of luck
2007-06-21 19:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by The Optimist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your way too young to be dating. your not even gonna get anything in the relationship. your way too young to be having sex plus itll hurt too much for you. relationships are only about sex. start dating when you can spell "ergent" which might be in college or something for you
some people are liek kiss him, dont! your way too young to be french kissing or whatnot. you holligans stop telling her what to do !!!!!
2007-06-21 19:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Harinder Gill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sense you are only in 7th grade i would just tell him that you are going to miss him a lot and ask him if he will give you a hug, i would tell you to kiss him but your to young in my book so yea
2007-06-21 19:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Keel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug him and ask for his e-mail so u will be able to be in touch with him.
2007-06-21 19:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by for_keeps8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, kiss him, when you are about to say good bye to each other just steal a kiss from him, i bet he wants it as much as you do trust me.
2007-06-21 19:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u spelled Urgent wrong
obviously not that urgent
2007-06-21 19:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by bob w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Even if you cant stay with himor whatever call him, email him, whatever!!! just dont be shy and be confident
2007-06-21 19:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by codie golfs alot!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋