we're no longer togther anymore but he still feels he can come and go almost like he thinks we're togther we dont have sex and he maybe comes over twice a week, but a while back he had sex with this gossip queen in the apartment complex i live in. She lives in a downstairs kitty-corner to me. I wish i had a picture to show the comparison of us lets just say she doesn't come close. I do honestly give props when due but this chick... He came by today and as he left he went over there on his way I got up to wash dishs and happened to notice his appearance he'd made over there. Since she is a total looser and lives off her mom and continueally abandons her 3 children on i'd say a monthly basis I watched as she walked him out to his car. I dont know why i still get so messed off by this, i think that it really sucks because she seems to be able to rub it in my face... I do see her on occasion alone i smile to myself which im sure she can tell and walk with my head high.
2007-06-21 12:34:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me get this straight...
You DATED a guy for 13 years...and someone else is a "loser?"
2007-06-21 12:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is time to put down the pretense of having a boyfriend of 13 years...he is not much of a friend to you, is playing games in front of you, knows full well that you see what is going on. The next time, and forever more, he comes to your door, send him across the hall...tell him you are too busy right now...do NOT unchain the door when you speak to him. Then close it and go about your business. This obviously upsets you, you are NOT moving forward with your life, and babe, it IS time to move forward from this silliness. good luck, stop being a patsy to this guy.
2007-06-21 12:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really bothers you, you should tell him not to come over at all.
As for the gossip queen, just continue to smile and hold your head high. I wouldn't involve myself in with her gossip or her personal life. She makes mistakes and people will form their own opinions no matter what you say.
2007-06-21 12:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget this loser...BOTH of them...you keep your head up high...and why do you keep allowing this loser into your home...girl, keep him away...he is doing nothing but making your life slower...you need to get up, move on, and kick him to the curb...COMPLETELY...I mean, why are you even opening the door for him...he is useless and not worth your time...and then he is going to hang out and hook up with this total uncaring mother...what the hell is he thinking...to even wanna stoop that low...he is only wasting his own time...i mean, wouldnt he wanna stay with you...someone who pays the bills and is independent...geez this girl must be so pathetic...and she should be ashamed of herself...whatever...you are better than that and honey you desrrve better than that...dont even let this kinda thing bother you...move on and show them that you are more than a woman...you are a phenomenal woman...
2007-06-21 12:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by <3 Is It You <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on walkin by her like it dont bother u and as for this guy .. when he comes over again keep ur door locked and when he knocks dont anwer it! let him go to her place n let her deal with him thinkin he can walk all over her cuz he;s done jus coming n going as he pleases! make that choice for him and for u .. start seeing whats out there! have fun gurl and for get about him!
2007-06-21 12:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by da1Nonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The messed up part is that you are having sex at that age in the first place.
2007-06-21 12:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah blah ..why u hating on the girl ? if a guy is your ex why is he constantly at your house ?come now move on
2007-06-21 12:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to move on. No point in even thinking about him or your trashy neighbor.
2007-06-21 12:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats one hell of a rant. chill out and move on
2007-06-21 12:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by pfr305 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't care about your bf after you are seperated. your ex sounded like a f-ing moron
2007-06-21 12:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by coolcube1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋