Do guys think it is a turn on when a cute girl acts stupid around them or do they just think shes stupid?
2007-06-21 11:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ANY GIRL WHO "ACTS" AROUND GUYS, IS MORE STUPID FOR DOING SO THAN SHE REALLY IS.
Guys don't REALLY think girls are "stupid".
Guys only think -->> "Girls don't make sense."
That's not "stupidity" . . . it's the guy's fault for not understanding women.
Because a guy might notice that being NICE, or GENEROUS, or EAGER to please/appease her, or "taking her out" all the time does NOT mean that it will get a girl to feel ATTRACTION for him.
"I don't get it" he will say. . . . "I treat her well and the MORE I TRY to make her like me, the LESS interested she is. But THAT guy who is a "d-ckhead" , is the guy she likes and wants to spend time with. WHY? Girls must be stupid."
No. Girls are not stupid. YOU just doesn't GET IT.
ATTRACTION does not depend on BRAINS. But UNDERSTANDING "attraction", how it works, and how to go about knowing what to do and what NOT to do . . DOES require brains. A little experience never hurt either.
STUPID plays no real role in why guys are ATTRACTED to girls. It is never a woman's I.Q. that will inspire him to get up from his chair and go over to talk to her. But, her BEHAVIOR is DEFFINITELY the MOST important thing he will consider when deciding if he will want to REMAIN ATTRACTED to her.
When girls BEHAVE BADLY, or BEHAVE stupid, or BEHAVE like nothing is ever HER fault . . . he will deffinitely be smart enough to know - right then and there - that HE would be STUPID to stick around.
Hope this helps.
;)
2007-06-21 11:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this old guy has been around females for quite a while and tell you that playing the dumb act can get really exhausting and tiring pretty quick. I try not to think of her as stupid but don't want to be around regardless of how cute/pretty she is. As a women needs to be able to vocalize because beauty will fade over time but your personality will be with you until they plant you.
2007-06-21 11:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never act stupid, unless the guy you're with has an IQ of 10.
2007-06-21 11:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Attila 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a turn-on at all for me. I need someone I can have a decent conversation with, someone who can share some of my interests, at least. If she's one taco short of a combo plate, I tend to lose interest quickly.
2007-06-21 11:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dan H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm not a guy- but i have brothers and guy friends..and i know they HATE it when girls act 'ditzy' around them
2007-06-21 11:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. Or they're thinking of boobs,sex,or porn if they don't think that.
2007-06-21 11:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's acting stupid just for attention, then its a turnoff.
2007-06-21 11:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey I'm totally jealous! Sexy whore! Huh. I didn't think anyone ever thought like me or was as slutty as me...
2007-06-21 11:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jill_babby 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i guy like me girls that are smart and can do thing on their own
2007-06-21 11:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda cute but gets old fast
2007-06-21 11:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋