Why is it so hard for me to find the right guy for me to date...?
i m not ugly... and all i want is a normal guy... not some jerk or some one who has alot of money... i just want a nice guy that has a good heart and that cares about me... why is it so hard to find someone like that... i mean is that too much to ask for... i dont think so...
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i dont party and i love to talk to ppl and i am only 16.... i tend to get my hopes up on guys...
9 minutes ago
and i m single.... well no wonder why i m asking this question
2007-06-21 11:23:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound wonderful to me
you will find the right person
maybe sooner than you think
2007-06-26 09:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you are only 16 years old! It may seem like everyone in the world has a boyfriend at 16 but they don't. Sometimes being single is better. You don't end up with your heartbroken. Yes, you see those girl's holding hands with there boyfriends etc. etc. but do you think about how those girls feel when the boy breaks there heart? You will find someone I promise you! There are so many guys out there. Stop looking for love and it will come to you when you least expect it. If you really feel you need to find a boyfriend or just want to meet guys try getting a job that's how I met my steady back in high school or try joining a team or a gym or try sports.
Hope this helped
2007-06-21 18:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the beginning of time, men and women have been searching for the answer to that same question to no avail.However, I don't want you to feel pessimistic or forlorn.You have very good qualities that make you a very attractive proposition.Although , right now ,you might not think or feel so, any guy who eventually is able to win your heart would count himself as the luckiest person.Please, don't lower your values or standard just because you feel alone ; maybe even lonely. You are still very young, attractive, with a great head on your shoulders.Be patient--a great guy is on his way to you,a guy that would make you forget this time in your life.Good luck.
2007-06-21 18:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you are only 16 and part of that experience is dating different guys until you find the right one, that can and should take a few years. Start focusing more on you life and less on finding guys and they will find you. Get involved in activities such as volunteering and school events, then you will be expanding your social circle leading to the meeting of more people, and guys.
2007-06-21 18:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about the same age as you are. If every guy you date cuts you off or you cut them off, it's either cause you're convincing
yourself that you are cute, or you are searching for the wrong guys, or it is something wrong with your personality. All guys aren't jerks. Maybe you could be the one being the jerk at times and not noticing it. Or maybe you are too nice or something letting them use you.
2007-06-21 18:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, dont worry, you will encounter many guys that want to date you as you grow up. Look for older guys who are more mature than younger ones. If you have a good heart, you will find that special someone. For now, just have fun with your friends and date casually.
2007-06-21 18:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by kcleighb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,I understand it's going to be hard to find the wright guy.AM 34 still looking.My mom always told me the wright guy will come around when you are not even thinking about him.I promise you that.Good luck but try not to worrierr about him just yet.I would worrie about school for right know.
2007-06-21 18:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is for the purpose of getting to know someone to marry them.You havent even finished high school yet hon.You cannot support yourself until you have a job, a car and a place of your own.If you want to meet decent guys though, try the United Pentecostal Church.
2007-06-21 18:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually works better if you make friends with them first. That way, you know the guy as he is normally, how he acts, how he reacts to things. That way, you don't get a complete jerk.
Once you get the guy, go ahead and start flirting. Make excuses to touch him - mess with his hair, playfully poke him, lean against him when you're in class watching a movie (if you can). He should get the drift, especially if you're only doing it to him and no one else. That's how I got my guy. :)
2007-06-21 18:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl ur only sixteen! its not like u'll never find that perfect guy.. im 20 and still havent but ive been in relationships for long periods of times. honestly i think i wont settle down for a while cuz ive been going out and doing whatever i want and i like ma freedom! i think u should date and enjoy being young!! one day u'll find ur prince charming and believe he;ll come at the right time!!
2007-06-21 18:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by da1Nonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please...you're only 16 you have plenty of time to find a boyfriend.....enjoy life without a guy for a minute
2007-06-21 18:26:08 · answer #11 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋