I have a friend that seems flirty with my boyfriend. She asks him for rides home, only hugs him (not me), and follows him around the house when she's supposed to be hanging out with me. My boyfriend says he doesn't see it, am I wrong to stop hanging out with this person? Is it not considered rude and disrepectful?
2007-06-21 10:50:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Who do you not trust? Your self esteem seems to be wanting some work.
2007-06-21 10:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie, FNP 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I don't know, my best friend has a boyfriend that I'm not at all interested in, but I tend to flirt and tease him a lot, but only because he's one of my best friends and I see him as a brother. But I can see your concern, I don't know to what extent your friend flirts or how good of friends you are. If you're really close I wouldn't stop hanging out with her over this, but if you're not really good friends I'd slowly stop hanging out with her. Either way I'd still keep an eye on her just in case. The fact that he says he doesn't see it might mean he's interested in her, but I don't know. Just keep watching! Hope it works out.
2007-06-21 10:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be afraid of anything if I were you. As Judge Judy once said, "There has never been a single case of a man being 'STOLEN away' from his girlfriend/boyfriend."
It's free will.
And I'll guarantee you, Honey, if he does play around with her, get down on your knees and thank the Almighty. Your friend has done you a great service.
You would be much better off with out either of them! (I know; this happened to me).
2007-06-21 10:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mezmarelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe she is not a good girlfriend and is after your boyfriend. Dont dump him.. Dump her, she doesnt have her best interest in you and even after this boyfriend she is bound to do the same to other boyfriends you may have in the future. Dont waste your time with this girl. Just dump her.
2007-06-21 11:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by raorao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes a really good friend then you should confront her about it. If shes not such a good friend, then yea I would stop hangin with her, or at least not when your man is around. If she hugs him and not you then theres somthin up. And if he "doesnt" see whats goin on then maybe theres even more up then ya think.
2007-06-21 10:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no - if you feel you have to then you are insecure...if your friend is making you uncomfortable then talk to her about it...
some people are naturally flirty...flirting is harmless..what is rude and disrespectful is talking about someone you call friend behind their back instead of talking to them...
if you are this insecure with your boyfriend then it doesn't really matter what you do with your friend...it will just be someone or something else after her...
2007-06-21 10:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure... along with the rest of the female population on this planet... Better lock him in a gage, this way you'll be always in control... of your own insecurity.
2007-06-21 11:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by MARY B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to trust your boyfriend. If he's really devoted to YOU, -wild horses shouldn't be able to drag him from your side. Let your Girlfriend be the rude & disrespectfull one. Keep an eye on her- but BELIEVE in him. :)
2007-06-21 10:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight that he's yours and not her and if she continues then I'd think about keeping him away from her. Talk to him too make sure he knows what this girl's like.
2007-06-21 23:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm suspicious of woman "acquaintances" who make a brilliant deal out of a guy pal who prefer his relationship along with his spouse or lady pal over them. you mustn't ought to "proportion" and split time with your boyfriend along with his pal regardless in the event that they're male or woman. How might she like it if her husband spent extra time along with his woman acquaintances than together with her? looks like she is jealous and that i might permit my boyfriend understand in a delightful and non-confrontational way how i certainly felt. you mustn't ought to "deal" with something---that's your relationship, that's your boyfriend---no longer hers. She must be extra centred on her very own relationship, no longer yours and if your boyfriend chooses his acquaintances over you,then he's an entire jerk and you ought to dumb him.
2016-10-18 07:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be a little afraid myself, I wouldn't drop her immediately but gradually break away from her. Always arrange to meet her when its just you and her, if she is a true friend, it shouldn't bother her.
2007-06-21 10:53:39 · answer #11 · answered by jo jo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋