We have had one golden retriever dog for 10 years now and she is lucky to get the attention of 5 family members. But we have learned recently that one golden retirever named Kylie needs adoption. We are considering adopting her, but we feel that Bear (our old dog) might feel upset or angered towrd Kylie for stealing her attention. Do you think we should adopt Kylie?
2007-06-21 10:37:19 · 19 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
Golden Retrievers are excellent family dogs and are well known for their friendliness towards other dogs and pets. It is very unlikely the two of them will have any problems toward each other. I think Bear would actually love a younger playmate. It will be good for him as he'll feed off her energy and as an older dog, it would be great for her to feel young again! If she feels upset at all, I don't think it would be channelled at the new dog. But honestly, with 5 family members, it sounds like there is plenty of love to go around. Just make sure you always give Bear equal or even more attention than Kylie. Kylie won't know the difference and Bear will feel even more loved. Also, you should set aside some quality time where just you and Bear spend some time together. It's definitely a really good idea to arrange a meeting between the two dogs beforehand at a local park just to see how they interact but I have a feeling they'll be just fine!
2007-06-21 10:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Indija 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will probably be jealous at first, but soon she'll get used to the idea. Could you take her for a week or so on a trial basis where you can return her if it doesn't work out? It would be worth a try, and I'm sure Kylie would appreciate the effort! Just be sure to not ignore Bear, and try to be fair with the amount of time spent with each dog. Feed them seperately so a fight doesn't break out over the food, and also to be sure that each dog gets their fair share. They will be more likely to get along if they are both spayed.
Good luck!
2007-06-21 17:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I don't know if it's a good idea. I know it sounds like it because the new dog could be like a friend to Bear, but I asked my vet the same question.
My family of 5 has had our dog, an American Eskimo, for almost 12 years, and a while ago, we were going to get another puppy. The vet said that it might actually shorten the life span of your dog because the attention will be taken from her and she will probably get depressed and die younger.
You may want to ask your vet first, because it may be possible that eskies act differently as a breed than golden retreivers. But I would be sure to ask first before you fill out those adoption papers.
Good luck!!
2007-06-21 17:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by r_dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys would adopt Kylie make sure that you split the attention between Bear and Kylie so that she doesnt get upset!
2007-06-21 17:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by whitechicks_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to take Bear to where Kylie is. See how they interact. Retrievers tend to be social dogs, but you never know how any specific dog might react. If you have kids, I would take them too. Bear may try to protect them, which wouldn't be good for Kylie. That's what I would do. Good Luck!
2007-06-21 17:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cali_wife12306 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce the two and make sure they get along. Maybe even have Kylie spend the night with you. Remember, Bear won't be getting less love, and she will have a new friend to play with!
2007-06-21 17:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it'll give Bear a companion to hang out with so adopt Kylie.
2007-06-21 17:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe bear would enjoy having some company while your family is out. If you dont want to take that risk but want to help the dog then find someone else who will adopt her. A family member? friend? That way you can still see her.
2007-06-21 17:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by minoko1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a test run with the new dog. Introduce them to each other on neutral ground first, such as a park. Give them time to get to know each other a little bit, then bring them home to see how they do. Do this before commiting to adopting, just in case it doesn't work out. Any reputable rescue will allow this trial time to ensure the dog goes to an appropriately suited home.
2007-06-21 17:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow's Melon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your dog to meet the kylie and see if they get along together. my old dog met our new one first and they took to each other right away. make sure you give the old one the same attention as kylie when they are together,the same food,treats etc so your old guy won,t be jealous. it should do him good and make hime feel younger having a playmate. best of luck
2007-06-21 17:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by john n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋