We are in love with one another but we have agreed not to have sex until getting married so he respected that greatly but sometimes when he talks to me I feel he is tortured by this feelings he keeps saying "You are in my mind much more than you can imagine, I dream about you every night...etc" Does it mean that I am chasing his sub-conscious? I know he is respecting me and my wish but am curious is he suffering or am I just imagining?
2007-06-21 10:29:06 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just trying to be romantic. Don't take it literally.
2007-06-21 10:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who I said I wouldn't give oral to until we were married, i just wasn't comfortable with it and didn't want to feel like I had to to make someone else happy...when I knew it would make me unhappy.
he said he understood and was perfectly fine without having oral ever again.
2.5 years into the relationship he started asking why. He started hinting at it and soon just plain out ASKED for it.
After a while I decided to try it but it still made me very unhappy and uncomfortable.
We lasted almost 3 years and it took him me getting engaged before he stopped trying to talk to me.
It ruined us...people change...it happens all the time.
Im not sure if he's hinting at wanting sex but realize if he's not ok without it than you're not ok together and he'll get over it...you will too and you'll find someone better for you. Promise.
2007-06-21 11:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Asprague 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just imagining it. He probably has a few friends who extend benefits; see what you are missing?
2007-06-21 10:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i think he might be suffering
idk my opinion
2007-06-21 10:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Leila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋