Dream, is it wrong for me to like it?

Question

About me- im a 14 yr old girl with a boyfriend and i love him very much...but this dream...Okay so i went to the ocean like, 2 weeks ago, which explains the ocean part.
In my dream, im with an older guy, maybe 15 or 16. And we r on a highway, but everybody walks on it, as if cars werent real. I see the ocean over between ramps, and i grab the guys wrist and pull him saying about how we should go to the ocean. He smiles and grabs my hand, but i tell him i have a boyfriend. He says it doesnt matter to him if it doesnt matter to me. So suddenly we're at a pool and we r sitting and talking, then he kisses me. Then, in a flash, im at a hotel with my parents alone and i say "no im dating John, i dont like Jacob". So i guess the new guys name was jacob. but i dont even know a jacob. Then in another flash, im on the beach with that jacob guy, making out on a blanket under stars. Does this dream mean anything important? Is it wrong for me to like it?

Answer 1

Yes it means something. It is your subconsious telling you that you are not truely in love with the guy that you are with. That your truely to young to understand the meaning of that fully and that you want to be able to go out and have fun. Be able to be with other guys and know that you are not fully trapped with the guy that you are with. Trust me I have been there before and now I am stuck because I am married. I always had to have a guy by my side I could never just be by myself and explore my inner thoughts and now it's to late. Please take the time while you have it and explore if you don't you may regret it in the end. It's always better to find yourself first before you find the one to be with for the rest of your life...

Answer 2

I just love dreams and that's what they are dreams. Your psyche is at its best when you dream. I think you influence your dreams as you get closer to waking and I know you can change them if you train yourself to do so. Who knows where they come from? And who cares? I have some of the best one that repeat and repeat. Some have faceless people, some are in strange places. I had one about London (never been even close) that seemed so real I would love to be able to go there and see if I could find the place the majority of it took place. It went from a couple of hundred years ago to sorta present. And what do you think about your concept of time? Take a short nap and have a dream in great detail that lasts for weeks. Too much fun. . .I try to remember them all. . . it's your mind at its most creative. . .

Answer 3

so a methods as i understand there is not any longer something interior the bible marking Lucid targets as evil or sinful. in actuality you would be able to desire to factor out that God and the Angels in many cases spoke to people of their targets and those targets could have certainly been lucid targets. All a lucid dream is, is a dream the place your wakeful strategies realizes whats happening an you as a consequence have some constrained administration over the dream. of direction according to a touch diagnosis lucid targets are not as useful for you as widespread sleep as your wakeful strategies is lively and as a consequence no longer improving accurately.

Answer 4

i love to say this "dream is just a dream" but for this case it quiet seem like real..its up to you to make it as a dream or as a reality!! so your boyfriend names is John.. Jacob you dont know him right... If Jacob suddenly really appear in your life.. what gonna happen? that why how strange the dreams is..sometime just let them be a dreams, and what happen next.. nobody knows..

Answer 5

At 14, you are dealing with alot of unfamiliar feelings with respect to the opposite sex, and also alot of confusing feelings between what is love, and what is sex, I think it likely to be a reflection of that....

Answer 6

Maybe you'll fall in love with someone...