i really like this lad but he has a girlfriend and I no he feels the same about me but he moved away about 2 months ago and i just can't forget him! Hes constantly on my mind and i can't seem to move on... we really connected and i don't no what to do?? please help me...thanks...
2007-06-21 08:40:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He moved away...do you really want to torture yourself with a long distance relationship?
2007-06-21 08:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's very little to actually be done just now,except maybe drop him an occasional line to say "hi" (something general and non-imposing to his current girlfriend in case it's intercepted)...that will keep you fondly on his radar without making you a nuisance. Then move on with living your life. For good or ill, things change rapidly in the lives of young lovers; he may in fact be available in due time, but you shouldn't put your life on hold waiting for that possibility because it may never come. I know this isn't as grand an option as you may have hoped for, but it's the best option for preserving both your hope and integrity in tact. Good luck to you.
2007-06-21 15:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be you will end up together:) It depends on how strong your feelings are. On the other hand don't spend all your time dreaming about him-it will only make things harder for you.You should go out,meet new people and try not to think so much about him. If you really "connected" and he has feelings for you I'm sure he'll find a way to be with you. Good luck!
2007-06-21 15:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by steena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this question first. are you sure that he reciprocates in the same degree whatever affection you have for him? you have to accept the fact that he's is not married to his girlfriend therefore he is not totally obliged to stay with her. bottomline, be realistic and optimistic at the same time. difficult but seems like the most sensible thing for now. optimistic hoping that there will be a turn of events and he contacts you and tells you he hasnt stopped thinking about you. but at the same token, realistic where it is possible he has already forgotten about you. unfortunately, life sucks at times
2007-06-21 17:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, short of having an affair with him, why don't you try to get closer and see how that pans out? I noticed you didn't mention that you two phone each other, etc. so I'm assuming he hasn't tried to contact you. In that case, he's either nervous, has one heck of a sense of honor around his current girl, or he isn't really interested. I would play it by ear...
2007-06-21 15:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he have a girlfriend. He dont feel the same about you. I think is just your wishful/ hopeful thinking that make u think he feel the same for you. Be strong girl, Move on
2007-06-21 15:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! "Your knight is wearing a different armour". Life is too short to be hung up on people who are sitting on the fence. Once you close the door completely on this guy, another guy who is much more exciting and interesting is going to walk into your life. So go for it ! Good Luck!
2007-06-21 15:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Red 4 Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since he moved..dont make things harder for yourself by dwelling on him..sounds like ya gotta let him go, even though that may be hard. everything happens for a reason, so this just may mean there is someone better out there for you. good luck
-daisy.
2007-06-21 15:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur close good friends who tlk alot, tell him how u feel, i had to and this guy had a gf to, but he was using her to get me jelous, maybye thts the same situation with u! just take the risk, tell him
hope i could help, good luck
2007-06-21 15:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on but not forget about him. you should continue to date and not just worry about him.when he realises how stupid he is for leaving you he wil come back!
2007-06-21 15:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by gaibrielle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋