... and the worst thing they do it on dates! That is so misleading and wrong makes me so pis.s.ed that I just leave them there (say I'll go to bathroom and dont come back) or leave them in the middle of nowhere. And please dont tell me I dont have game because I had plenty first date successes!
If you dress like a s.l.u.t. you should act as one, right? It wouldnt make sense... if you went to a cop on a street and he'd be like... "Oh just because I am dressed like a cop it doesnt mean I am a police officer!"
2007-06-21 05:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know. its like whwn girls w/big boobs wear tight shirts and then get mad at the guys for looking at their chest. it's dumb. i don't do it.
2007-06-21 05:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can see this argument from both sides, sort of.
I'm not sure that I would ever go so far as to just assume that I'm getting sex because of how a woman is dressed. You should just never assume that you're a shoe-in for scoring. You also have to be nice, and impress her somehow. But it is annoying when women are dressed flirtatiously, especially on a date, when there's no other way to interpret it, but that all of that flirtation is aimed at you, and then things go nowhere, when all of the signals she's sending indicate things should go somewhere.
Then the girls who replied talking about a woman having the right to dress any way that she wants to dress. I can agree with that to an extent because it is a free country. But then again, even though I am not the kind of person who would rape a woman, I can see how women get raped sometimes when they dress too suggestively. It's kind of like someone saying, "It's a free country. And I have the right to carry my $10,000.00 with me, right out in the open, in plain sight, where everyone can see it." Hey; and that may be true, from a legal standpoint, but I bet you a whole lot of the people, who have ever taken that attitude and carried a ton of money around openly, have also gotten robbed. And women need to take something like that into consideration when they dress themselves; it may be wrong to rape them, but I do think that they can dress in an over seductive manner that drives the temptation to rape them, over the top for someone who has the tendency to commit that kind of a crime. If you took two women who got raped, and one was showing off 70-percent of her body because of skimpy clothes, and the other woman was only showing 20-percent of her body; I'd say that the one who was dressed showing off 70-percent of her body could possibly have contributed somewhat to her own getting raped, at least through the power of suggestion. I'd also bet that in 4-out-of-5 cases where the woman showing off 70-percent of her body got raped; the woman showing off only 20-percent of her body could have passed by the same man, unharmed.
That's my opinion anyhow; now go ahead and hate!
2007-06-21 06:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by billyrayhombre09 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It makes woman feel good to look sexy. You are extremly sick, and obviously have no clue about anything that is related to a female. Maybe you should just stop "dating". Do you ever plan on having a real relationship? By the way it sounds you will never have one with that attitude towards woman.
2007-06-21 05:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you're assuming that everyone has the same perception of things. what you think is "slutty" someone else may think of as "decent". men have raped women before who were not wearing revealing clothing so clearly "revealing" clothing is not necessary for a man to feel that a woman owes him sex.
often times, young girls dress the part without it really reflecting who they are. women are so indoctrinated to "attract a man by any means necessary" but if she has sex, she'll forever be labeled a "slut", damned if you do, damned if you don't.
if your sole intention for dating is to "get sex", call an escort service. you'll be satisfied and it won't cost that much more than a date.
2007-06-21 05:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the outfits is enormous (accurately) and not tight, then confident it doesnt make you warm in any respect. Infact it supplies your physique greater area to flow interior the clothing ^^ (and sticking to undemanding experience rules like no longer donning various clothing in summer season helps ) each so often tho the top area would experience warm through fact the headcovers would be tight. yet there are tactics of coping with that. thank you for the beautiful question :)
2016-10-02 21:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have real issues with women, don't you? Who can determine what you think is flirtatious or dressing like a slut? My guess is just being female meets your criteria. Here's another cliche for you. "Just because a bank advertises its assets doesn't mean you have a right to rob it."
Buy yourself a personality and get a clue with the change. This immature knuckle dragging attitude will only ensure that you continue to date women who are much like yourself, LOSERS!
2007-06-21 05:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Lol dude, get off your lil mountain. All there trying to do is look good for you, big deal. I dont give a sh it if you have had first date accomplishments....what that makes you the hottest guy out there lol? Give me a break....your lucky im not there to take them away from you on ur first date..and take them home!!! If you have had game, then it wouldnt be hard now would it? Loser!!!
2007-06-21 05:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by blkhawk 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Would you please get your head out of your azz and read what you just wrote? You are the one that is reading the promise of sex into a simple wardrobe choice. What did you expect -- you wouldn't have asked her out if she HADN'T dressed hot in the first place.
What is your definition of a successful first date? One where you get laid? What happens, if you don't think you are going to get laid, you just ditch her by sneaking off to the bathroom? My bet is that you have a lot of FIRST dates -- not too many second ones!
2007-06-21 05:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They may want to feel sexy... Want you to think they are attractive. Sounds like your an a$$. Id consider myself lucky if you left during a date. Might save myself one of the many STD's you have recieved from your "first night Successes".
GUYS: THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE ON HOW NOT TO BE!!!!
2007-06-21 05:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have serious issues, did you ever think that maybe your attitude is why they decide not to be with you?
Women can dress anyway they want and it does not mean that you are going to "get some" because they look sexy.
Your just a guy who can't deal with rejection.
2007-06-21 05:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by glbenner 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You must be the type of person who thinks that just because a woman looks a certain way, she's asking to be raped, right? Any woman has the right to dress and act however she likes at any given time. You have no right to expect anything just because a woman is dressed a particular way on a date.
2007-06-21 05:31:53 · answer #11 · answered by Erin 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋