I met this female at where we work. I only seen her once and briefly talked to her. We are both part timers at this place so we will rarely see each other at work and its only for the summer season. She seems really cool, quiet and a little shy, just my type. I cant say i like her now, its a little too early, but however i really want to get to know her better, since we have some similiar things in common. I texted her about a week and half ago asking if she could work a specific day in the future, knowing that i was going to be working the same day also. I gave her another text just a few days ago saying that she was scheduled for work that specific day and her name was in the book. But I also asked if i could ever call her sometime. I never got a reply. My question is, do you think i was to forward about my last text. I didnt ask to hang out or anything like that. I think i will when i see her again. Do you think she is just shy, or is not interested or to early to tell.
2007-06-21 05:08:56 · 19 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One thing i forgot to mention was that she did respond to my first text message within minutes after i sent it saying she would work a specific day in the future that I ask. But no response to the second text. What do you think?
2007-06-23 09:10:30 · update #1
Hmm..don't think too much, she probably hasn't gotten round to replying you. Perhaps she doesn't know how to respond to your advances?
If I'd like to get to know a guy better (or a girl for that matter), I'll prefer face-to-face anytime, that way it's easier to gauge his rxn and level of 'clickability' with him. You both can chat abt work so it's not a problem, then you can slowly move on to common hobbies and interests, etc.
Tell you wad, after work you can ask her out for a cuppa coffee (your treat), and ask her to keep u company for awhile and unwind. I'm sure she's sweet enough to oblige, to know each other better as a colleague and friend ya know..
2007-06-21 05:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Iola l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls that are shy, don't know how to respond to open invitations like that...even through texts and especially since you two have only seen each other/talked a few times.
Saying you'd like to see her again, leaves too much open. I would suggest that you just continue being nice to her, and maybe bringing her coffee one day (maybe the day you both work?) and asking her if she'd like to hang out sometime, (maybe include that your friends & her friends can all be included?) and go from her response.
2007-06-21 05:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its too early to tell...you said that you've only seen her once and briefly talked to her....maybe you should back off a bit you could be coming on too strong...just talk to her at work when you see her then when in full conversation casually ask her out sometime...then you will know from her reaction if she's interested or not...good luck!
2007-06-21 05:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably a little shy about that. But I don't think you were forward. You've gotta start somewhere. The next time you see her just start with a hello or something and then ask her how shes been doing.
2007-06-21 05:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you were but at least she knows. Like you said though, she's a little shy so maybe she's happy about it on the inside. I would leave it up to her at this point I think, you did what you had to do and now you can only wait.
2007-06-21 05:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too early to tell, maybe she just didnt know what to say or maybe she doesnt feel like she knows you well enough, work a few more shifts with her and try and get to know her better
2007-06-21 05:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by Genevieve T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I htink you should bite the bullet my friend and call her, get her asked out, its the only sure way you'll find out, dont leave it til its too late cos you might regret it!
2007-06-21 05:15:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take it easy when you see her again ask hr out your not being too forward take a chance.You'll find out
2007-06-21 05:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too early to tell. talk to her. get to know her a lil better. then maybe she would reply. first befriend her, then ask her out. dont rush nething.. if she s shy, she ll b freaked out.
2007-06-21 05:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is shy you need to talk to her in person or over the phone.
2007-06-21 05:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by accebermn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋