2007-06-21 04:41:33 · 11 answers · asked by susan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a number of ways, certainly, but life's too short to run around chasing an unfaithful partner. Find yourself someone trustworthy instead and put all that left-over energy into something rewarding for the both of you.
2007-06-21 04:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really recommend following your beau around town, I would just rather confront him and ask him and if I felt he was lying I'd dump him...but some people need more proof...so...
The first thing to do, as much as it hurts to know that he is, (or even suspect it) is to not let on that you know. If you let him know that you've caught on, he'll immediately stop whatever relationships on the side he has going on, and you'll never have your proof. So let him go about his usual routine of crap and treat him like you usually would.
What happens next, depends on what he does with his time and where you think the cheating is going on.
If you think it's happening at his work place/gym, you can non-chalantly show up a bit early before his lunch break/or when he gets done working out, and say you've come to take him out somewhere. If the affair is going on in one of those places, she'll probably be flirting with him or hanging around him.
If you think it's happening somewhere else (like just around town) you'll have to play detective and follow him around on a day that he says he's going to go "hang out with his buddies". Just make sure he doesn't see you trailing him. Follow him around and see where he goes. You should know where all his friends live, and when he goes to a certian house of a friend you've never met, you've probably found his mistress's hideout. If he's there to pick her up, you can get out of your car when they walk out and confront them. If they're staying in, you'll have to wait a bit (say 30 min.) before you can waltz up to the door and demand that he come out and explain himself.
2007-06-21 11:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up your best friend and do a stake-out, catch-cheater-in-the-act thing. I did it for a friend and it works!
2007-06-21 11:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test him with questions & feel it by his first reaction.. Or hire a detective to check it out. Or ask his friends about him..
2007-06-21 11:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Confused!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could hire one of those people who purposely flirt with a guy to see if he ll take the bait.
2007-06-21 11:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by just a girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hire a detective
2007-06-21 11:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out have fun meet new people and tell him youre leaving cause you deserve better, and you know all about it.
2007-06-21 11:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by KAEENA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a spy store.Radio shack has neat little gadgets.
2007-06-21 11:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be your own detective--
2007-06-21 11:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by slopoke6968 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOLLOW HIM!!!
2007-06-21 11:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋