Would someone turn down someone that is either in high school or in college just because that person has never had a relationship before?? Has anyone did that?? Do you know anyone that got their first relationship late?? LIke in college??
2007-06-21 03:56:24 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Experience does matter a lot, but i dont think to the point where it is explicitly stated. When a person has had relationships, he or she knows how to treat his or her partner. what is expected of them and what they should be doing. Ive had a bad experience. I met my second half and i was very inexperienced with serious relationships, but he wasn't. He treated me so heavenly until i did something i wasn't aware of. He closed up, and now i am the one that cant let him leave my sight. So again, it is not explicit, but it is implied. People should be able to know what is expected of them in the relationship. and if the feelings are mutual.
2007-06-21 04:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by madeulo0k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time because "experience" comes at a price....sometimes a BIG price. Anyone worth your time will understand inexperience and be patient with you. We all had to start from somewhere. Those who would drop you for being inexperienced (and there are likely a few folks in that category) would not have done you any good anyway, so you're better off without them. Enjoy your life by selecting experiences for yourself that will enrich the quality of your life. Good luck to you.
2007-06-21 04:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last ex was 22 when we had started dating, and I was his first girlfriend. It was really hard for him to know what to do, and it was really difficult for me (with more experience) to go through it. He was truly awful at the beginning of our relationship (when I got a camo hat, a canteen, and glow sticks for my 20th birthday), but through much communication and patience, it did start to work out. Our relationship lasted throughout college until I transferred and met someone else.
I also know someone who is 31 and never went on a date, either. He's not gay or anything, but just likes being a bachelor and doesn't want to get married and have a family.
Don't fret if you're looking for something that you can't find. Relationships come when you least expect it. (I met my future fiancee when I transferred but was still dating the other guy!) And remember... You know that the person is worth keeping when they go to Wendy's and order a Biggie water wtih no ice. *wink*
2007-06-21 04:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by theewokprincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no cause there are people that would turn people down cause of inexperience, but there are also people who would not turn a person down. it just depends on the person. Experience is not whats important. What is important in a relationship is its how you feel about the person and how much you get along and make each other happy.
2007-06-21 04:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by jadedragon177 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think inexperiance can add some interest to a relationship. There's nothing wrong with learning from eachother. If someone were to turn you down due to lack of experience, than he is not worth your time to begin with
2007-06-21 04:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not turn someone down cause they had no relationship experience, many people have been in 100's of relationships and still suck at them. has anyone done that? i'm sure some people have but i bet those people are few, people date on personality and looks not if you had a relationship before, hell its even oposite people who have been married 3 times become seen as less relationship material (no offence to anyone, just how society looks at failed marriages). yes i know many people who got there relationships late and yes i know some people in college who only just started dating, no big deal.
hope i solved ur delemma
2007-06-21 04:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt think so! If you find someone who is truly in love with you or likes you a lot it wont matter! Dont stress about it, its not a bad thing. It just meens you werent ready to have a [relationship] or that you didnt want one. But even if you did want one you must not have found the right guy for you..
so best of luck!!
hope i helped!
2007-06-21 04:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by apg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million.) It shouldn't count no count if or no longer you have been in a prior courting, through fact a real courting is approximately becoming at the same time. If i found out that somebody i grow to have an interest and found out they had not at all had yet another courting i'd definatly nonetheless have an interest. 2.) i did no longer have my first genuine boyfriend until my Junior year of high school. I had "dated" a number of my guy friends in midsection college in spite of if it not at all lasted greater effective than an afternoon. while he found out that I had not at all had a real courting earlier he grow to be thoroughly pleased with it and not in any respect as quickly as judged me for it. i'm 17 and he's sixteen and we've been at the same time for only approximately 7 months :) desire I helped
2016-10-02 21:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by antonanzas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about to graduate college and I am dating a senior in high school. Call me a cradle robber, everyone else has. But I really love her, and if the love is there, then that is all that matters. Inexperience... who cares.
2007-06-21 04:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by P1D1T3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience is our inherent teacher leading us generally in many fields of our lives. As for love, if you are a beginner or inexperienced or totally experienced this wont make you a professional coz love is always unexpected and dazzling with all its heart-breaks and deep emotions. Just be ware and step by step coz its the most precious price we pay that is for a true love.
Best of luck.
2007-06-21 04:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋