2007-06-21 03:49:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can say if it is right or wrong.
Seems you are having second (or first?) thoughts about it now though.
2007-06-21 03:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong per se.
However, don't expect it to improve your relationship or friendship with the guy. Granted, there are plenty of guys who don't hold it against a girl if she sleeps with him on the first date, but there are also a lot of guys who are turned off by this behavior.
Yes, it is true that if he didn't want to have sex he should have said something or suggested that the two of you hold off on the physical part. There is no doubt he had a good time with you last night, but do not be surprised if he loses interest or if things fizzle out later on.
Men love mystery. Half the fun for a man, when is first dating a woman, is imagining all the mystery that lies both within her personality and under her clothes. If that mystery is revealed too soon, a man may feel confused about how he feels.
2007-06-21 03:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Eames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? Well, if you believe that you should not have sex until you are married, then yes. If you do not believe this, then no. Morally, what difference does it make? It is not very smart, however, for several reasons. First, it cheapens your relationship. Some guys are only in it for the sex, and given up that easy does not help you weed these idiots out. If that is ok with you, though, then fine. But you also put yourself at risk for disease and unwanted pregnancy every time you have sex with someone, protection or not, and the earlier in your relationship you are, the less you really know about this person. I can't judge and say it is wrong, but it is definitely risky. In the overall scheme of things, though, I doubt you have anything to worry about. If you are comfortable with your actions, then it is your business. If not, then don't do it again and you're fine.
2007-06-21 03:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens.
I've found it can destroy the development of what might be a very good relationship. Part of the early stage of dating someone is the build-up of feelings and sexual tension, and then the consummation of that when you finally do sleep together. By taking care of that on the first date, you've eliminated that part. You are no longer a mystery to the guy, and he might possibly not respect you as a result of giving in so easily.
2007-06-21 03:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by A K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nah...not really. Sometimes it happens... it's part of dating, but it will send the wrong message to any guy that you sleep with on the first date... if he wants to go out with you again, then maybe he's really interested. But be prepared for the worst. and think about it before you sleep with another guy on the first date. It doesn'tm ake you a Sl*t or anything, so don't worry about it. Everyone does it at least once....
2007-06-21 03:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on it happens. If you really like the guy and started making out and it happened who cares? Its your life don't worry about what other people think. If you like him and he likes you and it was really good dont worry he will call you. I have been very happily married for 17 years and we did it on the first date. We didnt plan it that way but we really liked each other and we just clicked it was magical and I think we fell in love on the first date. Good luck.
2007-06-21 04:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ester 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong, but you did it at the spur of the moment and emotions. He might think you are easy, but it also opens the door a whole lot faster. If you guys do work out, you guys will move alot faster because sex is involved now. So don't worry what others think, it's your opinion that matters. So be happy and enjoy the moment. Good luck..
2007-06-21 03:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jamezy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello Angel,
If you felt a connection and went with your impulse, I would hope you would not be second guessing yourself and thinking this was "wrong".
But
You have definitely established certain things with this person. Don't be surprised if the two of you are on completely different pages and a second date is awkward or doesn't happen at all.....
Good luck to you
2007-06-21 03:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by yoak 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who is to know the wrong or right of it but you and God.
I do know that lots of guys who get sex on the first date do not have any respect for the girl and will not stay with them long...if at all. If they do date you off and on...it will be for the sex.
Sex on the first date leads to lack of respect from the other person.
But, as I said...the right and wrong of it is between you and God.
be cool...
2007-06-21 03:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, that all depends on how you feel about it. Personally, I don't think it's a good idea because the guy may get the wrong idea and think that is all you were looking for. But, if the guy is considerate and realizes that you both got caught up in the moment, then maybe he won't think less of you.
2007-06-21 03:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by wild_crazy1981 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋