yeah my best friend dated my x .should i stay friends with her? or should i just not talk to her ?she went out with him for a week and she thinks she in love with him .How can that be i mean i went out with him longer he told me i was his first love that meant the world to me i need help!!!!!!! what should i do?
2007-06-21 03:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by karen j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She dated your x. So what? He stopped being your boyfriend. That means he was up for grabs. You have no authority over him or your friend. If she loves him, be happy for her.
If you have any real concerns, like he was abusive towards you and now you are worried he will hurt her as well, voice your concerns and keep the lines of communications open.
Otherwise, grow up and keep your nose out of things. Friendships are too valuable to be burning bridges over stupid stuff.
2007-06-21 03:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks dating your best friend's first love. Just grow up adn talk it over with her. There is no reason why a boy should get in the middle of a good friendship.
2007-06-21 03:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems juvenile but I don't know your age. However, he is your "EX", plain and simple. Whatever the reason was that you broke up, you need to put it aside and be happy for your friend if you ARE her friend. If I was your friend and you started dating my ex, I would suck it up and show you my happiness at your newfound smile.
Never let a guy come between you and a friendship.
Sandy :O)
2007-06-21 04:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If it just makes you cringe at the thought of them together and you really cared for him, then you might want to distance yourself from her. Just tell her it's too "weird" for you right now. Maybe after you get a new boyfriend it might be different.
2007-06-21 03:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have any feelings for him and have no intentions of getting back together then don't let a boy come between a friendship. Boys will come and go but a true friend will be there for you through it all.
2007-06-21 03:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel? Are you really hurt? If so, get her out of your life until you feel you can forgive.
2007-06-21 03:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jukebox 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move on.It's awkward.
2007-06-21 03:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you need her...tell her how you feel..did she even ask you if it's alrdy to date your ex?
2007-06-21 04:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋