a boring girl like me. I have trouble believing there will be a man who will love me and have a good chemistry with me. I am boring, don't have a strong sense of humor, not a great listener or conversationist, not especially talented, training to be a chemical engineer. I am above average looking but short and petite. I am having problems keeping relationships and interest last, even with girlfriends. I am so boring. Please help
2007-06-21 02:09:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, Maybe try to lighten up a little.... Just a little bit. Start doing other things you enjoy as well. Try to listen a little better. Don't change who you are, just add to other things you like to do. I don't think your a bad person.... I just think if you were to enjoy other things that you are not used to doing, that you might actually enjoy them.
2007-06-21 02:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets take an assumption that the Universe is infinite.
Given that the probability of a man wanting to be with a boring girl is maybe extremely low, say odds of a million million to 1. The answer is, a guy will at some point, want a long term relationship with this boring girl. This is because any number, however small, multiplied by infinity, is equal to 1 (ie it will happen).
So hang in there.
2007-06-21 02:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont always have strong self confidence, but i keep it to myself. You need to stop telling everyone how boring you are and maybe you will get a life. I'm not talented..... but im training to be a chemical engineer? ...hullo? you already shiit over most people i know. Youre not ugly, whats the problem. So you havent found a boyfriend....BIG DEAL its all over-rated anyway. Bored people are boring. Get out there! I think the reason you dont have friends or boyfriend is cause your so DOWN on yourself. No-one likes a wet blanket. They'll suffer it for a while but will eventually give up. All up to you.....
2007-06-21 02:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try to find other intrests.
If you like a certain show, radio station, website, sport, ect. You can work from there. Maybe you can even find a guy who is also training to be a chemical engineer or something kinda like that. Then you would have something in common, and you could have better conversations. But don't call yourself boring! It will just lower your self-esteem. The right guy for you is out there somewhere. Don't worry!
2007-06-21 02:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Julie J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go around with the attitude that you are boring that is going to rub off on other people. Most guys that are worth your time love a girl with confidence, so try to focus on the good things about yourself. Sounds like you are very smart and pretty and I am sure there are plenty of more good things about you. Try to be patient and hang in there.
2007-06-21 02:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something out of the ordinary for yourself...
Try to take golfing lessons or take some sort of class to give yourself something to talk about and meet new people. Part of the reason you feel boring is because you yourself are bored with your life... so spice it up somehow. Even if you aren't good at something, it could still be fun to learn something new and make you feel like you have something new to talk about.
2007-06-21 02:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're only boring if you think you are boring. You have to enjoy SOMETHING. It is impossible for you to not have any interests. So once you figure out what you truly like, find someone else who enjoys it too. And trust me there will be someone else out there who does enjoy what you enjoy even if it is somewhat out of the ordinary. So just chill, you will find that someone eventually, I guarantee. And it will be when you least expect it and with whom u least expect it...
2007-06-21 02:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by jacarig 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know theres a lota fish in the sea. Every one of them has their match. If one guy doesnt suit you. Try another. And Actualy go to things YOU like. Like a chemestry club or something. Or if there isnt one, START one. There will be guys there. And they obviously like chemestry to. So go out there. Join clubs of your interest. Good luck!
2007-06-21 02:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 21:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just introverted. Not boring. Best match for you would be someone equally as introverted. Bet if you find someone like that real sparks will fly and neither of you will seem boring.
2007-06-21 02:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋