Did you get justice? How would you feel if your life was threatened, and the person who threatened you, who thought they were so smart, got caught by their own stupidity? Would you laugh about it? Would you forgive them? Tell me your story, how do you feel?
2007-06-21 00:45:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yes and I have always exacted my justice, even if it takes years to do. Revenge is best served cold. Often I find the person trips themselves up, it makes it easier. I laugh when its all said and done. Maybe, I am just sadistic like that?
As I have told people before, I can be your very best friend and ally, or I can be your worst nightmare if you betray me.
2007-06-21 05:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was abused as a child. Revenge is never the answer. People that abuse others want to hurt you and if you give in to their mean ways then you are not any better than they are. There is nothing to laugh about. I cried many nights because how they hurt me affected me so deeply. It was only as an adult that I realized that I wasn't functioning to my fullest potential.
Everything over time, will heal. I didn't want to rub in their faces how horrible my parents were to me. Because I didn't think it would solve anything. I wrote them a letter telling them how they were to me. And time has been the only thing to heal every one. It's a long story but, I forgave them for everything. Because if I didn't forgive them, then my children wouldn't have a healthy mother. They deserve this and I owe it to my children to ensure their lives and well being was my first priority!
2007-06-21 07:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by SDC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had learned a lot from trials. Who says life is fair? When somebody deprived you of your future, or got all your properties and investments, what should become of you?
I would like to tell you this - an eye-for-an-eye nor tooth-for-a-tooth is not really the answer. It would only aggravate violence. Worse, it would not give you peace of mind and you could no longer see there is still future ahead. Your own sufferings would not end.
Healing takes time but at the end, the best revenge would be getting the best out of yourself after someone had done wrong to you.
2007-06-21 08:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by ritz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been. The older I get the more I practice forgiveness, patience and humility in the fact that we are all just having our own issues. This persons issue of not being a very good friend may come from a place I don't really understand etc.. and I have issues that this person might not fully get. See? So we are all just human. We live, we love, we hurt, we get persecuted, we fail, we get up, we dust off, we keep moving.
Not one of us is better than the other.
2007-06-21 07:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by sassinya 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Abdulla Bin Obai Bin Salool, known by: The Head of Hypocrites. He was laughing at Muslims first, then he pretended to convert to Islam & acted as a spy for the non-believers. He then found himself between Muslims who were growing and growing until there was no hope to stop this religion. Who was laughing at the end, him or the Muslims?
2007-06-21 07:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Red Dragon 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The only person to ever seriously wrong me was never caught, and at this point, ten years down the road, I feel mostly indifferent.
2007-06-22 08:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by nomadic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to have a happy childhood, forgive and get your life back.
2007-06-21 07:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge in life my freind is living well...I try and live by that motto
2007-06-21 07:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey if your old man wacked you over the head and got caught do you still love him. !!
2007-06-21 07:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by daryl 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
How about 3 guys comning into your father-in-laws's house with Pistols and robbing you, your wife and your 80 year old father-in-law?
At night.
Will that do it?
Ditto.....................
2007-06-21 07:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by maguyver727 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋