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Desparate. Have found needles hidden. Have felt something wasn't right with husband. Have not seen any marks unlike the last time he had problem 10yrs ago. How can he be hiding the needle marks? I have to find proof he can't deny, because I can't go thru this again. Help

2007-06-14 08:07:19 · 22 answers · asked by sheshe 1 in Health Diseases & Conditions STDs

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well my Ex boyfriend use to hide it from me and i only found out because i walked in on him shooting it up on the top/outer side of wrist you know where the hair grows well he had some pretty dark hairy arms and he would do it between the hair so it was really hard to tell But after i caught him in the act we sat down and had a heart to heart talk and he also confessed to me that sometimes he would break the needle off and i guess use it as some kind of a turkey baster or something because he said he would shoot the dope into his a** hole because it i guess mad him get sexually aroused by that but i asked him if he was willing to get help then we could work this out because we had just had a baby together and i was willing to stay with him but unfortunately he was unable to keep up his end of the deal and because like i said we had just had a baby i figured if he isn't going to be able to stop for me and his wonderful baby boy then he isn't going to be able to stop for anyone and i was not about to bring up my son in any kind of environment like that so i left him needless to say he is in jail now and i am married to a wonderful man and i now have two kids my son and also a daughter . i don't know if you believe in god but i do and i know that everything happens to us for a reason it is his will and maybe who knows maybe he honestly isn't using again maybe those are from years ago when he was using and i think the best thing you should do is to approach him in a loving caring manner and ask him if he is using again dont just start jumping to conclusions be cause he use to have a problem if he is still using sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him and try to some how work something out. P.s if when at any time you guys start to argue with each other during your h2h talk take a time out breathe and relax remember how much u 2 love each other and why you took your vows to begin with and that you promised each other that you were going to be with each other through thick and thin SICKNESS and HEALTH till death do you part . now that doesn't mean when you see kill him ~J K~ LOL seriously though right now if he is using then he needs to be treated back to health so hopefully everything works out for the two of you

2007-06-14 10:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie Hainsworth 1 · 0 0

Needle Track Marks

2016-11-07 08:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Many people use a vein in the neck or on the feet such as between the big toe and the next toe. Some also go into the stomach. You may need to do a full body check. Good luck!

2007-06-14 08:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 2 · 0 0

First of all i can say i totally sympathize with you. Both of my parents were i.v. drug users and i couldn't present proof for 2 years after i had suspicions. It kills you inside to know that you know that you know. But that you can't confront because you don't have proof. It rips you up inside. And be prepared that when you do find proof he will make you feel like your wrong, how could you accuse him if you love him, that he would never do that to you, and that you must not really know him after all. He will be trying to make you feel so stupid and have you wanting to apologize to him. DON"T DO IT!! DON"T GIVE IN!! If you know for positive that he's doing this, DON"T back down. He needs someone to put it in his face. And take on the problem head on. He could have track marks anywhere! In the webs of his fingers, toes, on his back, neck, feet, on his behind, inner thigh, anywhere. I am so sorry you are going through this! But stay strong! Don't give up , don't back down. But in the same sense, don't be mentally abused. Try to pop in while he's in the shower where he won't be suspicious that your looking for marks on his body. You can get through this. I hope the best to you and your family!

2007-06-14 08:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be direct with him. Ask him if he's having a problem again. Then ask him if he is willing to try and end the addition.

He's your husband your supposed to support him not throw him out. There are medical procedures you can go through to detoxify without the w/draws that can kill. Maybe he would be willing to look into steps like these if he can be honest with you and know your there to help him not flip out and hate him.

2007-06-14 08:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe he's doing it on his foot or something. i think finding needles is a enough proof, you know what's going on and he knows what's going on, so why do you got to look for more proof. in no way shape or form should needles be hidden around one's home, and if they are, then you got drug use. so either it's him or one of your children doing drugs---my bet is on him.

2007-06-14 08:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by happypants 3 · 0 0

junkies will use almost any vein to shoot up in. under tongue, between toes. If you found needles and he isn't diabetic ask him to take a drug test. or just forget about him cause he loves his drugs more than he loves you.

2007-06-14 08:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

tell him to stop using them...or youll leave him or turn him in to the cops or a syco place...if he loves you then hell stop..and if you love him you talk to him!!!! he could be hiding it by makeup or he pus the shots somewhere were you wont notice or where his clothes cover up!! idont know..hope it helps

2007-06-14 08:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He could be skin popping, which could be done in his stomach, almost like a diabetic injecting insulin

2007-06-14 08:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by mianjo413 5 · 0 1

feel sorry for you....you dont deserve it, plz take care of it and solve the problem, may be you should talk to your doctor? do not try to handle it yourself you need professional help.
take care

2007-06-14 08:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ali K 4 · 0 0

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