i have a guy when he is annoyed he prefers to annoy me instead of talking what is bothering him.what should i?

Answer 1

Point Blank.........I know you're upset about something what's going on? If he claims to not know what you are talking about tell him what you said here...tell him you have noticed when he gets annoyed he changes.....sometimes it helps to just come out and point out their behavior.

Answer 2

I have a guy like that too. It's hard and annoying isn't it?
Just tell him that he shouldn't take his problems or worries out on you... explain that i makes you feel unloved, lonely and even gets you annoyed aswell. Then tell him that he doesn't need to lock anything away, you are there for him whenever he needs to and explain that he can tell you ANYTHING and you will stand by him and support him no matter what.

This will make him feel really appreciated and guys love that. They also like to know that their girl is there for them and will protect them (ofcourse they don't admit to that!)

Good Luck! Hope i helped!

Answer 3

Tell him that a mature person would sit down and discuss the problem. Usually when men are lying to you, they play that game. Check out the situation, and don't fall for that load of BS!! Tell him that if he wants a relationship, he needs to act older than twelve.

Answer 4

Tell him that you don't want to see him if he is in a foul mood. You shouldn't take the brunt of his frustration. If he wants to talk then say yeah meet ya ............ and chat if he starts his nonsense say call me when you in a better mood. He will soon learn that you ain't his verbal punchbag or anything else but a good friend.

Answer 5

tell him you are no longer prepared to take crap cause he cant express himself adequately....a guy who cares about your feelings wouldnt be so eager to step on them