okay there is this boy that i like an he has kinda long hair and i only really go for guys with short and i want to go about a way with telling him to cut it.we are kinda starting to date and I dont like his longish hair!He is perfect just his hair,i dont want to get him p.o.ed so can anyone give me advice on how to tell him to get ahair cut but in a nice way?It is not like hippy long it is surfer long and i like a miltary cut above the ears above the collar his is curly and adam brody like how most guys have it today but I HATE it .PLease help me.o and do guy like girls who re "bold"?
2007-06-13 23:13:36 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah Simpson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt want him to shave his head but this is how you do i. if he really likes you this will work. i have used it before with my boyfriend and the results come back 100% positive. Start playing with his hair and hint at how much better it would look short, or talk about how much you like short hair around him. like point in a magazine at the hairsyle you like and say something like, "that would look soo good on you!" or "i really like this hairstyle." i got my boyfriend to start wearing cologne which smells so good, stop putting gunk in his hair, and to style it a different way. i liked the way he styled his hair but he put so much gel and stuff in it, it was giving him really bad dandriff. or however you spell it
2007-06-13 23:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by Loved 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess all you could do is like if you see some guy with a hair cut u like, or else look through a magazine, off-handedly say you really like that hair style on a guy. From there it's up to him if he takes the bait or not. But don't go on about it all day cos it's annoying.
Thing is, how would you react if he told you to go do a poodle perm at this stage or shave your head cos he likes chicks with no hair? You like each other for your individual styles and/or personality right?
It depends on how involved you guys are in the relationship. if you are still in early stages of dating, don't say anything to blatantly.
However, if his hair is unhealthy with split ends, perhaps suggest he gets a trim or something.
2007-06-13 23:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an extremely shallow person, but you're also a kid so there's still hope for you. You might as well learn now that you can't change a man. If you can't accept him the way he is with his hair and all, then don't bother with a relationship. You obviously haven't grown to be mature about it.
2007-06-13 23:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by dickdamick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either like him for what he is or leave him alone. You have no business telling him to cut or not to cut his hair. How would you like it if he told you that he liked you, but you would have to cut your hair or dress differntly? You are supposed to care about the person regardless. Looks are not everything.
2007-06-13 23:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its wrong of you to try and change him. If you really hate his hair that much and you're that shallow, dont date him. But if you are willing to grow up and see that relationships are about more important things than hair styles, date him and dont try to change him! Believe me, men generally dont appreciate women trying to change them! :)
2007-06-13 23:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shaun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he dislike something about your personal appearance? You should accept him as he is or stop seeing him if it gets to the point of his hair bothering you.
2007-06-13 23:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by B. Gregory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Iam here why you are wasting your time for that stupid guy, i have the short hair only. If you want i can show u the entire dream...:-)
2007-06-13 23:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by SunShine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to get crew-cuts anyhows, tell him you'd find him more attractive with short hair, or tell him 'that guys' haircut looks so sexy!
2007-06-13 23:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its sort of his decision, how he wants his hair.
just tell him you usually prefer short hair on your men, WITHOUT making him feel like youre asking him to cut off his hair. if he really wants to please you, he WILL cut it off(without being asked straight out), if he doesnt, then, well, youll have to live with his locks!
2007-06-13 23:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him by starting off jokingly, but then making it more obviously serious. If he likes you he will be happy to do this to impress you.
2007-06-13 23:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋