he dumped me around february 1st.. then when i asked him why he refused to tell me.. he finally told me and said.. 1st im moving in two years, 2nd we fight all the time, 3rd im not ready for stuff like this.. this year his classroom is right beside mine! i thought i was over him but when i saw him there was a BIG improvement.. physically.. he lost weight! anyway.. before my friends thought he was ugly.. now all of them think hes sexy and hott! and one of them has a crush on him! what should i do? move on? i see him everyday i feel so.. i dunno!! what should i do!?!?!??! help! please!!!!!!!!!!!! :((
2007-06-13 22:23:19 · 18 answers · asked by Gravity. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesnt deserve you move on and find a guy that does...Sucks you have to see him everyday, makes things harder...Just smile when you see him, dont let him see you down...Good Luck girlie
2007-06-14 20:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you need to play it cool. If he dumped you he isnt going to come running back if youre panting after him, BIG turn off!! (sorry) i do think that if he dumped you by txt message then is he really worth all the heartache? Just because he has changed physically doesnt mean he will treat you any better. He is still ugly inside.I also think you need to be honest with your friends and tell them that them having a crush isnt helping your situation, its cruel and they need to stop rubbing your nose in it.
If you really want to win him back (although i think you should consider this carefully) then the best thing to do is ignore him and act as though you couldnt care less, there is nothing more attractive to a man than a girl who is un available. Make it obvious to him that you are having a really good time being single and be distantly friendly towards him, say hi but then walk off.
Whatever happens if he starts treating you badly again then forget him. you deserve someone who can appreciate you x
2007-06-13 22:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl you should not stress out a lot on these kind of things. Im still 15 and the thought of having a bf did not flutter in my mind yet. To be honest, if a boyfriend dumps you over through text message it means he doesn't mind your feelings or he isn't that in love with you, im sorry to be frank but that's the way it goes. I also experience that funny feeling almost everyday in school, when you saw your crush or your ex boyfriend, you have butterflies or your heart skips a beat, well just go with it then you cant stop it but always remind yourself of the limitations that are left. First you ended your relationship, or he did or you. But this also doesnt mean that you wont talk anymore the best thing to do? remain friends, but if this condition makes your heart more broken or you cant take the pain of liking again someone who dumped you, then keep a distance for this feeling to stop. anyways were just kids still, there's still a million or billion boys willing and waiting to be your bf. just wait and have faith. if you aren't meant to be then you should just get over with it. He doesn't deserve someone like you, yoiu're way best! and you deserve the best too!
2007-06-13 22:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by diary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is seriously a real ***!!
You probably did really love him and you might still feel like you do but I can promise you it’s not love anymore, no now it's just some highly developed form of loneliness.
Think about it, you used to spend time together probably every single day, and now you have got nothing to fall back on.
I have been in the same situation except I gave up my friends and in the end I really had nothing left to live for.
But life goes on and so should you, he's not worth one tear or even one sad memory, because you know what you are the better person.
Don't ever let him back in your life, that's not a great idea either, and definitely DO NOT TRY TO BE FRIENDS with him because you will always end up wanting more.
Remember you are allowed one day of mourning for every month you spent together.
It's still going to hurt when you see him, and you’re still going to feel sad, but when you feel ready get up, dust yourself off end get back in the game girl.
There are millions of good honest guys out there who will treat you like the princess you really are!!!
2007-06-13 22:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by seldean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i can tell you is this life must still go on, and it is often said "what belongs to you no matter how hard or soft you tried once it is yours it will come back to you and this time never to leave you again". Life is full of up and down, while think of some thing that you will not stop, and even you try to do it you might end up getting into problem with not only the man but even your friend.i tell you one thing your friend is not in love with you like wise you ex-boyfriend he was never in love with you either, remember today she feels that he love her so much but i tell you if he can love to your friend he can also leave her for her friend, so life is a game
don't worry about some thing you will not handle.it is hard to take but at times we have to take some bad thing to make some good once out of it.
2007-06-13 22:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by cmas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you saw him again he looks very handsome man so you want to have relationship with him, it is possible that you think like that cause girl always loves the handsome boy. Hey you say see him everyday so it easy for you to be a good friend and then close friend too. But be careful he had been dumped you by message so now he look very handsome so how do you think if he do it like this to you again or not?
I hope you can find the good ways for you to solve your problem.
Good Luck
2007-06-13 22:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by happy2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to move on girl because that dude isnt yours, because he is a coward that he could not even tell on you face to face. you will get over him just dont pay much attention to him and to what he is doing get new friends who will keep you busy at school and before you know it will be over.
he will not come back now especially now that he has lost some weight sohe feel more handsome than before, let him go you will find someone else in return.
2007-06-13 22:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by joyland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry this has happened to you. All I can say is move on and find another BF who will give you the love and respect you so surely deserve. I know there is someone out there for you, and I hope you find him. Good Luck.
2007-06-13 22:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him for two weeks or even a month and see what he does. Most probably you will get an unexpected sms after some time.
2007-06-13 22:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by meshack m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This jerk did not even have the courage to tell you in person. He may look good on the outside, but he does not have a good character. Find yourself a sincere and respectfuly guy. This creep is not worth it. It is definitely his loss---not yours.
2007-06-13 22:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋