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Question

im 16 and im seeing a 24 yr old man i no his 9 yrs older den me but its justa numba i myself look older then iam so we both look realli gud togther my parents didnt no he was 24 i lied n sed his 18 and dey found out his 24 n told me im not alud to see him. i realli feel happy with him he makes my days his just everything i dreamt 4 he is the guy dats been in my dreams and now its realli hard to let go . but at the bak of my head i still want to c him without my parents noing do u guys think i shud just let go?? please help me i need help

Answer 1

hey,
i think she should keep seeing him ur parents want u to be happy they just dont realise yet that he makes u happy ur old enough to make ur own decisions. u have to ask urself is it better to lie but be happy or not to lie that brings a tear u anrt doing anything wrong if he treats u rite and u both have strong feelings towards eachother then go for it u never will no if u guys were ment to be if u just give up. the only reason people are saying no now is becaause ur 16 they dnt no you how mature u could be! in ten years time even 5 people wont even look at ur relationship twice go with what ur heart says after all its that heart that gives the brain the true feelings!! take care xx

Answer 2

You need help... from a tutor! How can you expect to be in an adult relationship when you sound like a 12 year-old?? Your parents are right. He's too old for you and you have a lot of maturing to do before you're ready for a serious relationship with anyone. Yes, let go and focus on growing up and getting an education.

Oh, and the fact that you're now trying to stalk me (and having your friends do the same) solidifies my point. Don't you see how childish you're acting? What on earth makes you think you're ready for an adult relationship??

Answer 3

I think no problem for you that you have a good relationship with the man that has his age older than you. You know if he is old but he can know everything that you didn't know it before cause you are so young. I think your parents think right, you must be tell them the true age of your bf and they can tell you about the reason why they want you to have relationship with the old man.
I hope you stop lie your parents
Good Luck

Answer 4

You need to quit focusing on a relationship, and start learning how to write and spell. Your education has definitely suffered. Most people write better than that when they are in grammer school. How do you expect to hold a job one day, with 12 year old writing skills?

By the way, I agree with your parents. This man is a child molester. He is way too old for you!!

Answer 5

actually i see no problem going out with a guy 9 years older. most guys mature slowly anyway, and its nice if he has a job and everything by the time you get married.
maybe you should try explaining to your parents. let the guy see your parents often and tell your parents about how happy he makes you and what a nice person he is. try to get your parents to accept him

Answer 6

I Hope you know if your parents pushed this issue the man could be put in prison.How would that make you feel?Let him go grown up and become a young lady.He has taken the most precious thing you could have given later in life.
If there was no sex duh why else would he have been with you.That is called statutory rape in most states even if you agreed to have sex with him

Answer 7

1. Learn how to spell correctly (barely read it)
2. matter of age plays no role in liking one another. but here...hes man and youre a girl. you have to mellow to involve in a serious commitment. however, he he accepts you the way you are, then it'sokay. You're not adult and he is....you should focus on school and when it comes to dating....focus on your peers.

Answer 8

tell ur parents how happy u are with him they may allow u to see him still ..and u can make him ur inspiration on ur studies and learning spell words correctly with him..how's that huh??