We had a short and intense relationship. We fought and she broke it off saying that she loved me but our relationship was not in a solid foundation. I tried for months to get back unsuccesfully. We were apart some time. It seemed like we were going back on track when I found in a cruel way that she was with another guy. I was heartbroken. I gave up on her and after some time I started a relationship with another gal. In the meantime she apparently dumped the other guy and wanted to be back with me. I told her I had a gf. A friend of hers said she was crying. It didn't work out with the other girl so I'm free again. Last I talked to her she was very angry and said I played with her feelings and that she broke my heart out of spite because of previous problems. She is angry I commited with another girl and not her and that I forgot her so soon . She was my first love and still love her. But I also think we have hurt each other too much to have any future together.
What do you think?
2007-06-13 21:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both of you sound like you are too young and immature for an adult relationship. Why don't you both back up a bit, take it easy and see where you go from here? Try to be friends first, rather than boyfriend/girlfriend.
A real relationship, with real love, doesn't involve hurting the other person for spite, which you both seem to be too fond of doing. You are not being good to each other, and you are not fair dragging in those other people (boyfriends/girlfriends), into this mess.
Stand back and try to see what you should be doing.
2007-06-13 21:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My frd ur case is critical bt still have chances to revive, i think that u both should agin start this relationship bt as a frdship,giv her time to understand ur feelings,time is the greatest healer for evry pain.Stay cal, and dont panic as getting panic will not help u.Try to explain her that ur relationship with another girl was fake if she does nt agree with this thing then u jst accept ur fault and tell her that u you ruiened ur life with ur own hands and u feel guilty for it. Try to explain her that how much special she is for u and u dont want to spend ur life without her,(crying or weeping will help u more). if she would have ever love you she will forgive u.Bt remember again after all this stay as good frd and try to gain her trust in every aspect of life.
trust in GOD and everything will be f9.
2007-06-13 21:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Passionate Desires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u crazy dude.... move on ...she has no right to judge u that way.. she moved on first.. she was the one who said your relationship was not on solid grounds..
get a spine... forget her ..and move on... she herself doesnt know what she wants.. you are thinkin from the wrong part of the body.. use your brains and be practical.. she sounds like a very controlling person ... all the best {}
2007-06-13 21:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by who ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAVE A TALK , SEEM LIKE SHE FORGOT YOU FIRST AND WENT WITH ANOTHER GUY, AND NOW ACCUSE YOU OF FORGETING HER TOO SOON, I THINK IS NO FUTURE SHE TRY TO BE RIGHT EVEN KNOWNG THAT SHE IS LYNG;
IS A SPECIAL WORD IN OUR LANGUAGE FOR THESE CAIN OF PERSON
2007-06-13 21:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's been too much petty drama for the twp of you to take each other seriously.
2007-06-13 22:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by ndsgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watever works out best for
u dud, go for it
2007-06-13 21:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by walter n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up my friend never......if you still love her go for it. You are even, see it that way...
2007-06-13 21:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run far, run fast!
2007-06-13 21:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋