how do you prove to someone they are pretty?

Question

Is their a way? show a girl that she is pretty or to convince her that she is? or is their no way in hell?

Answer 1

If she is pretty and doesnt see it its more likely to be a self esteem issue and you cant really 'make' her believe you. Instead you need to help her work on her confidence, try telling her she is a good person, point out what she does well and build her up that way. When she feels good on the inside she is more likely to look in the mirror and see a good person on the outside, therefore she will feel beautiful. Encourage her to reach out and make the best of herself, courses, groups etc. Maybe do something together. You could also try and work out what makes her feel unattractive, did she have a bad up bringing with negative comments or perhaps she feels undervalued in her career? Since i have made some changes in my life i look at myself differently, i FEEL like a good person, i changed my job and have started some new hobbies. I hope this makes some sense x

Answer 2

Depends on the situation, is she you're gf? if so may be it's about her own self confidence or being hurt before.

The effort you make for a person shows them how important they are to you. If you show her a lot of affection she will know you think deeply of her and feel confidence in that.

Actions speak louder than words sometimes and may be in this case also.

Tell her you love the way she smiles, the way her eyes light up with excitement! Let her know without "you're pretty" how she makes you feel, those type of things for eg, but don't over do it though. Build her confidence in you, that will build it in her also.

Good luck.

Answer 3

this ? has a very simple answer. to compliment her in a way that will make her believe you're being sincere about it (& you really are) then...when you guys are getting ready to go out and ur ready watching tv and she comes around the corner or down the stairs, tell her how beautiful she looks. let her know the extra time she puts in to make herself that much prettier FOR YOU is always worth it. when ur lying in bed naked together and ur slowly and softly stroking her skin, remind her how georgoeus she looks and feels. f what these other folks are saying. remember when u were a kid and it was drummed into ur head "if u hear it enough ur gonna start believing it". that's sooooo true!! she's obviously down on herself for a reason but rest assure you can help her back up. sometimes we girls, well i, need that reassurance from my bf. i just need him to remind me of how sexy i am sometimes. :)

Answer 4

If she is fishing for compliments, there is no way. She already believes it.

If she has low self-esteem you could try to focus on more important things than her looks. If people keep trying to convince her that she is pretty, of course she will think this is very important to everyone and in reality, it should be far from it.

Answer 5

It has been my experience that self- image, especially for women, is a TOUGH nut to crack

You do not give your ages but I believe that MOST people struggle with self esteem and self image.

Simply put - if a woman like Halle Berry or Cameron Diaz think they are butt ugly - WHAT could you say to convince them differently ??

Continue to treat her special with kindness and respect

Good Luck

Answer 6

Just tell her that she is pretty. If she doesn't believe you, bring her in front of a mirror and show her.

Answer 7

they just have to feel it themselves ,,, maybe buy them some nice clothes, give em a day spa pass ,,, anything that would make them feel more like a woman then just a plain female

Answer 8

She needs to believe it herself. All you can do is keep telling her and hope she will accept it.

Answer 9

if look her in the eye and say it seriously...no joke but in a serious matter...

Answer 10

If she doesn't believe she is, there isn't anything you can do other than tell her she is.