my boyfrnd caught me?

Question

see, yesterday i was in my room changing wen my bf's guy best frnd shows up. we chat and stuff . then he starts forcing himself on me. i was obviously crying and stuff. im really scared. and on top of all dat, i gave my bf a key 2 my house so he opens the door n sees me doing it. he doesnt kno i was bein forced. i kept tryin 2 explain on the phone but he keeps hangin up. and he doesnt believe dat his best frnd wud try 2 do dat. what should i do???? im not pregnant tho...

Answer 1

Another troll lost in fantasy land. I prefer your previous question - at least your grammar was better.

Answer 2

OK, if he forced himself on you, REPORT him to the police. The bigger issue is NOT that your boyfriend thinks you were cheating but that a man forced you into sex. Call this number, 24 hours a day, for help: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673).

If you report this I think your boyfriend will be a lot more convinced that his friend really was forcing himself on you. You shouldn't report this so that you can convince your boyfriend though, you need to do it to possibly get a predator off the streets.

EDIT- I read your other question about having sex for the first time tomorrow. So... I call bull$hit! How could you 1) be a virgin if you were raped and 2) even consider having sex so soon if you were just sexually assaulted? It makes no sense, cupcake.

I'll leave my initial advice up there in case someone who really WAS raped happens to read your question and reads the answers for guidance. Keep in mind that this kind of crap, saying that you were raped when you weren't, only makes it more difficult for people who REALLY were assaulted. When a dumba$$ like you cries wolf, it causes people to believe that women only say they were raped to get attention. I hope you're proud of yourself. What a sad, sad person you are.

One last thing- if you falsely report a crime, YOU have committed a crime. The police and rape crisis team have FAR more important things to worry about, such as catching REAL criminals and helping women who were actually assaulted. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT even dream about falsely reporting your boyfriend's friend unless this is a real crime. You will end up paying for your deceit.

Answer 3

I'm really sorry that must suck.
Why didn't you try harder, like kick him or like bite him or something to get his frnd off you?

Tell your BF that if you don't believe me then its over. If he doesn't then I'm sorry, but I would do the same thing if I saw my GF do that.

Im sorry, but, you got to think of it in a guys Perspective.

Ok again really sorry. If I was you , I would go to his house and force my self in and prove my point, not by arguing but by, like having make up sex and being aggressive and showing him that your telling the truth. It will get him thinking.

Thats probably the best answer I got for you, if that doesn't work, then I dont know what else.

Answer 4

To be honest, if he can't believe you, he doesn't trust you. That's not what a loving relationship is about. I would explain what happened and that you are really upset that his friend tried to take advantage of you, and because he doesn't believe you. If he doesn't believe you, then he never trusted you, and it would never of worked. Bitter sweet truth. But if there is a way you guy's can work it out then go ahead if you want to. Even if you had thrown yourself at his friend, his buddy was still trying to do stuff to you. So regardless if he thinks you are lieing, he stood right there and watched his best friend try to make a move on you. So if he was such a good friend in the first place to him, then why was he caught in the act of coming on to you? Regardless of who started it.

Answer 5

r u ok ?JUST B4 FEW MIN U ASKED A QUESTION TAT U R VIRGIN N WANTED TIPS TO DO 1ST TIME..........N NOW TELLING U R RAPED????????????



c if jocking dont do all this with ur life


u r a girl
respect ur gender..c im being little rude but i want to know y u r lieing?mad?
tell the truth 2 all answeres... do u realise its a serious site...people help n advice other people to solve their problem

such a novel work
dont prove u a bad 1 , in front of all.. say the truth.if really prob v all will advice u..oor no 1 wil trust u again


all the best

Answer 6

Here I was all set to feel sorry for you, until I seen your other question. I think that you were using your boyfriend's best friend to practice with and got caught. So you made up the story of being raped. But then again, you said you were a virgin in your last question, so which is it? Either you are a virgin, or you lost your virginity to some guy that raped you? Get your story straight!

Answer 7

You've got a tough situation. Your bf's friend rapes you (that's what it's called). So, consider reporting him to the police; consider going to a rape counseling center; consider getting therapy. As for your bf, send him a letter, explain what happened. Ask him if he is interested in how you are feeling or only in how he is feeling. Does he want you to honor his feelings? If so, is he willing to honor your feelings? If he won't honor your feelings, you want a bf who will...so dump him. But get some help over the rape.

Answer 8

Forced into....a kiss? Sex? If sex, call the police on the jerk. Tell your mother.
If a kiss, then keep trying ot contact withyour bf. If he continues to be an iggorant jerk, then he's obviously too focused onto himself and doesn't care to hear your side.
Sorry, and good luck!

Answer 9

ok, if he was trying to force u and ur bf won't listen to u on the PHONE then go to him and talk to him face to face. if u really want him back then do everything u can to try and make him listen. if his best "friend" would do that to u and to him then i don't think he's a very good friend at all. anyways, talk to him face to face, the phone isn't real good for things like this.

Answer 10

Wow. Honey you just described being raped. If it is true. Call the police and to he#l with your bf if he doesn't stand by you.

But if you are making this up because your bf caught you cheating on him- you are evil. To slander someones name, reputation, and risking there freedom for your mistake.

Be a woman and own up to your mistake or call the rape hot line- they will council you and inform the police (if you want)

Answer 11

You are a human being with will. You could have stopped the guy if you wanted to. It's not like you were resisting with all your might and he punched the lights out of you, is it? If not, then you partially complied in an implicit way, and therefore don't deserve your boyfriend anymore.