Am i in the navy and found out that i was moving to a new office. I used to go over to the new office and hang out with this girl. She is really cool. She is like my mom. She is 37 years old and i am only 22. Well we became good friends and went all the time to red lobster, olive garden, etc...we went to the mall....like everywhere we went we were always holding hands...anyways, we got drunk one night and she told she would have sex with me...im like no i wont let you....then she crawls on top of me and starts kissing...ever since then things have been so weird between us moreso now because i am back in work....how do i get my friend back?
2007-06-13 19:35:25 · 8 answers · asked by Michael B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Michael, approach her and say " I apologize if I offended you". Leave it at that. Don't go into details. Don't explain yourself. Now your done cleaning your side of the street and you can move on.
2007-06-13 19:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, once that line has been crossed it's really difficult to go back to being just friends without it being akward :( the best thing to do is have a talk with her and let her know that though you don't want to have a romantic relationship with her, you like her a lot as a FRIEND, and because of that.... you don't want to lose her...let her know you value her friendship, but you want it to be just that. If she understands and accepts it... then she is a true friend.. GOOD LUCK
2007-06-13 19:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by sandi_villanueva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...do you not want to be with her in a relationship because of the age difference? If so, you need to explain that to her. She may be embarassed by her actions, or she may feel that you lead her on...so she feels rejected. Just talk to her about things, tell her how you feel. I'm sure there's things that she wants to say to you as well...she just doesn't know if she should. I wish you the best of luck in the situation.
2007-06-13 19:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Amber Lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I want to know is "why don't you have a girl friend?" You only want a friend? who is 15 years older than you? And you only want to be her friend? You said she is like your Mom? What do you get out of this relationship? Shrug....... Geeze, I don't know what to say, except, don't get drunk with her anymore.........
2007-06-13 19:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do in this situation; she's probably really embarrassed....just let her approach you about being close again.
2007-06-13 19:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She wants to ride you....you give her that and you will be her boy-toy if you don't she will resent you....only escape...get a girlfriend and use that as your excuse "I would love to have sex with you becuase you are so hot but I'm in love with my girl friednd and I can't do that to her..."
2007-06-13 19:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. She went beyond the friendship boundary.
2007-06-13 19:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can do that. If it is at all possible.
She will need some time to adjust.
2007-06-13 19:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tyson boy's dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋