its not that im desperate or something..its just that i kinda wonderin why dont guys (since ive been to college) approach me..i mean im chubby and all, and not to brag but i know im smart,confident, a pure fashionista...my guy friends and even my brothers even compliment me that i dress well and i look good...what do u think are other reasons of guys not liking a girl?maybe because im chubby?but ive had guys courting way back in highschool..im in 3rd yr college now..
2007-06-13 19:25:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I assure you that "chubby and all" is a turnoff. As far as "smart and confident," guys care about as much for that as the heartbreak of psoriasis.
Judgebill below has given you a flowery, PC answer. I have given you more of a blunt one.
2007-06-13 19:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have a nice personality and you know yourself.
You are confidence and know your positive qualities. Being chubby is not a problem. There are lot of people who are chubby yet very attractive. I would suggest that don't rush in to anything. Take your time and you will get our chance as well.
2007-06-14 02:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Joe C's got a point. ... and that's the tough reality of your situation.
The whole "love yourself" thing is said a bit too often, BUT I will say this:
NEVER base your self worth based on what another person thinks of you.
Now... back to life: No disrespect but in this narcissistic, model-size society, the weight issue is one of the primary factors that affect potential courtship for both women and men.
Try changing your diet, and consider shedding some pounds.
2007-06-14 02:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy that judge women for the way they look arnt worth it. Idk why guys wont go out with you.Some guys are intimedated by intelegent women. But I wish I had a better awnser for you. Its not the outside that counts. Its on the inside(Personality and other stuff). C
2007-06-14 02:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by 0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you? So love yourself, accept yourself as you are, without judgment. If you can accept yourself then you will find others accepting you as well. If you love yourself, others will love you.
2007-06-14 02:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋