He's amazing but i know that i need to move on. i normally am not the type who gets attached but he got me. we both get jealous when we see each other with the other sex. its insane. but he's 17.
2007-06-13 17:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by jtbabymama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea and im 18.
2007-06-13 17:57:40 · update #1
o yea and im 18. part of it was im lookin for more sophisticated ppl. idk im soooo heartbroken. cuz he wont call me like he was but begged me to come to his house. im lost. i use other guys as a distraction but its not working. i really do need help
2007-06-13 17:58:54 · update #2
so here's the story, he had a gf but she dumped a week before prom and he asked me if i wanted to go with him cuz he said that we should and told him no cuz i had one. well we were in track together and we continued to talk. well he told my friend that he liked me. montana gave me his number and told me to call him when im not busy, so i did. i finally confessed that i liked him and he said that he liked me to. well we started "dating" and we kiss and did things couples do. well i went out of town and things changed. he gave me his necklace and told me he never wanted me to forget about him and always remember him,then he said that when he graduated college we would start a family but now he's being gay. he also told me that he wanted a long relationship but now he's ignoring me but he called me begging me to come to his party and told me that he really wanted me to come im so confused!!!!!!
2007-06-14 16:28:13 · update #3
it is normal for teenagers. somehow, when you get elder, you feel the same way too, just act in different way.
if you ahve feelinsgw ith soemone, the jealousy is always there, but the mattter of how you handle the jealous and feelings and how to show it or not.
2007-06-13 17:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so hard? I may not know you or your situation but by the looks of things, i been and i am in the same boat you're in right now. It's hard, I mean me & my ex boyfriend, we were great once upon a time, found out we were expecting life couldn't be better!!! We lived together & one of his friends' cousin started hanging out wit us & well to summarize it, we broke up last year, we still run to each other for everything, i don't get as touchy about the other sex now that we're not together, when i was pregnant that was a different issue..haha anyhoos...I guess what I'm saying is, don't try to fight it and give him up. Just let it be, it may drive you crazy & up the wall insane but you know what? Your heart doesn't listen to your mind. It has a mind of it's own. It's like me & my ex say to each other when we fight, "I can't help who I love, believe me I tried to everything to give you up, even when I didn't try, everything led me back to you. Not just because we have our son. BUT you have my heart. You're my better half." & i'm not lying. PERFECT EXAMPLE...Today!! We were talking about why we're not together & it's hard due to the broken trust but other than that, we are together!! We act like a couple, we do things together even with our son as fam bam time!! It feels just like old times but with a baby boy in the picture... I don't know your story with this guy but go with the flow, if you stop it now & you're not sure if you want to give him up jsut yet, then don't. You'll regret it & wonder what if all the time...I hope I helped...somewhat..If you want to, contact me & i'll be more than happy to explain my situation more..my best bet is this...if u didn't love him so much u'd give him up easily but it could be infatuation but if it last this long trust me it's love & if i were you. act on it, share how u feel with him, let him know how u feel. sometimes it helps to know where you'll end up if you say where you're going with this whole thing so tell him.
2007-06-14 01:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by hayn_bebe_702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's amazing y would you want to give him up(Theresa not many of those) and if hes too young its not like itll be forever till hes legal so if you must than let him go and if it meant to be he wont be gone long. oh and jealousy is a sign of insecurity so maybe it ll be a good thing to let go because hes clearly young and not many younger adults dint know what they want >trust me I'm young and i dint even know what i want<(good luck though gurly)
2007-06-14 01:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are inlove with the person. If he worth nothing to you then you can easily forget all about him.
2007-06-14 00:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious u guys r really close and u guys luv it each other a lot
2007-06-14 00:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by germanyrox360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give him up or just mope around
2007-06-14 00:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so?
why do you wanna give him up if he's amazing?
2007-06-14 00:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by pls help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋