my dad belonged to a gang that is the enemy gang of the gang the guy i like is in...wat do i do?? family or love??
2007-06-13 17:45:22 · 26 answers · asked by Sweety 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sometimes family can hold you back on doing whats most important to you and it depends on your relationship b/w your lover and your father. Just look at the advantages and disadvantages on both you lover and father. You will figure it out.
2007-06-21 14:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by urnotme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I guess since you said your Dad belonged and not belongs, it's something in the past, he's not in the gang anymore, so I'd say choose love if your Dad wouldn't mind, but choose family if it's just a guy you don't plan on seriously dating and seeing a future with.
2007-06-14 00:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by rrekissej 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love your dad needs to grow up and be a damn father and not in a gang choose love u never know where it might lead in the long run
2007-06-22 00:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family will be there ---gang are a stupid thing when they fight over turff were does it get you the truff they fight over there grave who does it belong to ...you kill over a gang name were it going to get you ....i belong to one gang the creator get a education get away from the gang inviroment period ,,,,make some thing of your self and get out own your own at the right age forget the gang crap it will get you no were in life heart acks abusement some family gangs say we look out for are family what in a grave some look out ---get a out look on your life and the gang wars and were it is going to get you in life and what are you going to with you now
2007-06-14 00:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out the ghetto and find a man with some $ and more to his name than a gang branding
2007-06-22 00:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to your dad, family is family, blood is thicker than water. But your dad may also tell you what i would tell my daughter, stay away from gang members.
2007-06-21 22:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by cleobaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
family have your dad beat him for being in the wrong gang
2007-06-21 02:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever read Romeo and Juliet?
I would pick Love though this depends how old you are if you are over 18 then go for it. If your family loves you then they should except it.
2007-06-22 00:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st thang 1st family cause ur luv for this guy culd leave quick but the luv ur family haves 4 u n the luv u have 4 ur family last for a life time
2007-06-22 00:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by www.armydiva221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say family. No guy is worth losing your family over cause one day he may realize he doesn't love you like he thought he did and then it'll be too late..you would've already have lost your family by then.
2007-06-22 00:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kelsey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋