Is he into me?

Question

I just met this guy last Friday @ a party & we've hanged out twice on our own. We've talked to each other everyday since we met & when we hang out we act like if we are going out (holding hands, making out, etc.). When we are together he makes me feel like he really likes me and makes me feel appreciated and hot. BUT, here is the detail, he just recently broke up w/ his girlfriend who he was living with & he is dating this other girl @ the same time that me n me him are talking. Now, I understand that because I guess u can pretty much say we're both playing the field. But, unfortunately I am starting to really really like him and today has been the first time he doesn't call so I don't know what to think. We are suppose to hang out this weekend and when we've talked he brings up future dates, so I don't know what to think about him not calling/texting me today! HELP.... I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!!

Answer 1

Sounds like he may be into you just for one thing. If he was really into you and wanted a relationship with you, he would have already got rid of the other girl and pushed to spend more time with you and only you. Put him on the spot and tell him how your feeling and let him know your getting too close to him and it's time to either be exclusive or be gone. Good luck

Answer 2

You 'just met him', chill out girl! You are just a casual aquaintence right now...so go with the flow; however, don't get so caught up in your HOTNESS, that you give more than you bargain for. THIS GUY IS JUST A GUY, NOT A PRIZE. He is just enjoying the flowers in the garden and you are just one of them...DON'T THINK YOU ARE SPECIAL! YOU ARE JUST LIKE ALL THE OTHERS HE IS SEEING NOW.

IF HE LIVED WITH A GIRL IN THE PAST, HE MAY BE LOOKING FOR 'HOME GIRL' as a first priority. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU GIVE YOUR HEART TO...IT COULD COST YOU. JUST ENJOY HIS COMPANY AND THINK NOTHING MORE THAN THAT. LOOK AT WHAT YOU WANT IN A MAN FIRST, THEN WHO WANTS YOU. USE THIS GUIDE LINE: If A Man Really Wants You!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he does not want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that is not meant to be.
S l o w e r is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve; then heck no, you cannot "be friends".
A friend would never mistreat a friend.
Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Do not stay because you think, "it will get better".
You will be mad at your self, a year later, for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He did not marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any
differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Do NOT EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun, even if he does not turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are
and you are always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.
Do not fully commit to a man who does not give you everything that you need. Keep
him in your radar; but get to know others.

Answer 3

Yea i went out with a boi like that ..and at the end he broke up with me for another girl and broke my heart. and HES A PLAYER. He sounds like one to dont waste your time sry

Answer 4

wow- ok you really need to talk to him. I have a freind like that and it is anoying. I know now that those actions were just him...and he does that to everyone...its just him. So find out what the deal is and make your best judgment.

Answer 5

ask him what he feels about you, and lay out the details. Tell him what you really feel and tell him, you want a relationship (if thats what you want). He kinda sounds like a player, sooo i'd be careful...

Answer 6

He just wants to "talk" to you right now. He's not ready for a serious relationship. Is he american?

Answer 7

he's just a guy who might want a date. you're making something out of nothing