People always say to be careful with guys that are smooth or sweet talkers.They will play ya.But can some guys be sweet and sincere?and mean what they say?
2007-06-13 16:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the answer is no......to be honest ive never met a guy who was a smooth talker and actually cared for the girl.....most of the good guys are a little shy
2007-06-13 16:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know your guy, it is possible that he is sincere. On the other hand, he could have bad motives as well. You are probably thinking he is too good to be true.
Yes there are a lot of bad men in this world, but many of us are good men who would make wonderful boyfriends, husbands, and fathers. Do yourself a favor and not fall in the "He is too nice" frame of mind. Give the guy a chance.
2007-06-13 23:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a sweet talker, Sarah, but not because I'm a player. I'm a one woman man, and very romantic.
The sweet-talkin' players learn from us romantic guys. They use romance as tricks to get what they want... sex. Unfortunately the players outnumber the romantic guys, so women don't always realize that sweet talkin' doesn't always mean player.
What's the way to tell the difference? The player will be sweet talkin' you from day one.
2007-06-13 23:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure. I'd say be weary of smooth talkers too. I'd say the only way to find out is keep him around for awhile (a good year AT LEAST) and if he starts to pressure you for lovin' or leaves before a year, I'd say he's not sincere. I haven't met one yet.
2007-06-13 23:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by manybagolike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really say since i dont personally know the guy.
Some guys can be very genuine and just be speaking from the heart. Others...most others actually... are just jerks who are trying to play you.
What kind of reputation does he have? Has he had alot of girlfriends in the past?
2007-06-13 23:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by luvbug7982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that, but I don't have a gf.....Even if I did I'd still have respect for girls. I mean I'd never act like an ***....if someone is sweet to someone else that can mean either that they are gentlemen or complete flirts.
2007-06-13 23:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Attila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA not any of the ones ive met! try and figure out how many girlfriends hes had in the past and if hes cheated on any of them..then youll be able to tell...
2007-06-13 23:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, all girls like to listen sweet talk. It depends on how much you believe that person. and it depends whether you believe.but if it too much,you may need to consider
2007-06-13 23:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just match everything he says side by side to the lines guys give on this website listed below... if they match up, get rid of him, if they don't match up, your probably good to go.
http://www.drirene.com/verbal1.htm
Take care.
2007-06-13 23:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Deborah C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always theres guys out ther (like me) are teddy bears and just want our gfs to be happy ne way possible
2007-06-13 23:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋