ok im 18 and my b/f and i have yet to have sex... i told him i wasnt a virgin and that i have had sex twice but it was a while ago when i was 16 (i know its stupid but i was embarassed that he had more "experience" than me...) when we have do have sex will he be able to tell that i lied?
2007-06-13 16:09:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got a 50-50 chance, if you don't over-react the discomfort of your first time and you don't bleed from a torn Hymen or he dose not notice by you covering up the evidence. So you can possibly fool him....But he is going to be gentlier, happier and prouder if you just tell him the truth!
Will S
2007-06-13 16:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he will be able to tell that you are a virgin. I suggest that you tell him the truth. He will probably understand that you were embarrassed. Tell him you are really saving yourself for that special person. Tell him this well before you have sex. That way if you do decide to have sex with him he will know that he is that "special" person. Besides, I'll bet if you tell him the truth he will think better of you rather than thinking that you had sex with two different people at age 16. I have two boys ages 20 and 23 and they both agree on this point.
2007-06-13 16:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are really good that yes, he will be able to tell if you are still a virgin.
1. There is usually a barrier that he will feel on initial penetration.
2. It hurts - and he will probably notice when you wince.
3. Most of the time, there is blood of some sort. Sometimes a little, sometimes alot.
4. Do you really want to be that intimate with someone who you don't feel you can be honest with?
He may even be flattered to be your first. I would suggest coming clean BEFORE the deed. Chances are, he will be less upset if you are honest up front, rather than finding out you lied to him later on.
2007-06-13 16:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by simplykrystie333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably though some virgins don't bleed. Sometimes the hymen breaks before a woman has had sex.
make sure you're ready this is the right guy. There's nothing to be embarrassed about for waiting.
2007-06-13 16:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by babyeightyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, but you should probably come clean. No need to build a relationship on a lie. Tell him the truth and that you were embarrassed to look inexperienced. Chances are he may think it is pretty cool. If you don't want to come clean and think that your hymen may still be intact and you might bleed. Here is a good explanation on that...
2007-06-13 16:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by mudgei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to give something so special to someone who you can't even talk to and be honest about it with. Your virginity is a special gift to give the right man. The man should be someone who you can share absolutely everything with. Your darkest secrets, your hopes and dreams. Someone who understands you and loves you unconditionally. I can't think of a more beautiful gift to give your husband on your wedding night.
2007-06-13 16:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-13 16:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously --- guys are dumb as cows. He won't know unless he's really paying attention. That's where the whole concept of "popping" your cherry comes in.
With that said -- you should really tell him. He's your boyfriend. How long have you been with him? Honesty is the best policy for any relationship worth being in.
G'luck.
2007-06-13 16:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by INsight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be able to tell for sure. If he is a REAL man, he will not care and love you still. A good boyfriend is compassionate and will see why you lied to him.
2007-06-13 16:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go hire a prostitute and do it twice with him. lol jkjkjk
Ya he probably will be able to tell. But if I were you, just tell him the truth.
2007-06-13 16:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Ashleyy. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋