im hispanic also im [colombian]mostly Mexican's like ages 17-28 something like that i hate it every time i go some were their always looking at me like as if i wanted to give it up to them i cant go outside with out some one hitting on me it is so annoying one time at my house my moms friends son [like 21 ] years old asked me to kiss him eww i told my mom and she told her friend and he said that his son requited everything but for real i have told them to go f*** them self n\and to leave me alone and iv'e basically tried everything what should i do to make all these perverts stop!!!
2007-06-13 16:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i am 13 im not reay for that attention and i already have a b/f and i love him so much and don't want no 1 else on meh like that nd he knos me and he has not brought it as far as lukinj @ meh like that
2007-06-13 16:13:50 · update #1
You did the right thing by telling your Mom abouy her friends son. Atleast she is aware of the situation in case something else happens.
As for random people, the best you can do is ignore such statements and continue on. If they keep harassing you I suggest you report them to the police because they could be harassing other women as well.
Being pretty has its advantages, but it also has its disadvantages. If you have to go somewhere where you know these people will be there, try to bring someone with you to make you feel more comfortable and safer.
Good Luck and stay alert!!
Hispanic men in my area are the same way, I guess they are naturally flirtatious without thinking. Its not cool but some people are just like that. They like women that are attractive no matter the race. Im A/A and Cuban and I have the same issue as you. I ignore it and they usually just talk amongst themselves.
2007-06-13 16:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. how interesting. I always thought mexicans only harrased us white women to be mean and dirty. I didn't know they did it to other hispanics. Looks like it is just in their culture. I always threaten to call the cops. and sometimes I do. It use to happen a lot in the town I was from. They are just dirty old men who are disrespectful. I am sorry you have to deal with that. Be careful. I always thought they were dangerous. Bring a cell phone with you and call the cops if you need to.
2007-06-13 23:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by ambergail1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly you can't stop men from pursuing you. That is what men do from time to time. If we find a woman we think is attractive, we will go flirt with them and possibly ask them out. That is like asking a dog to quit peeing on fire hydrants.
The only thing you can really do is to reject their advances. If one of them ask you out or make sexually suggestive remarks, just tell them that you are not interested. Most cases they will back off. If they persist, then tell them to f__ off.
2007-06-13 23:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird... I guess I'll never have the answer. You are hispanic and you don't even know why the hispanic guys stare at young girls.
Just ignore it and feel good that you are good looking.
2007-06-13 23:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by ssmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOLZ GET USE 2 IT!!!! WE ALL LIKE THAT!
THEREZ NO WAY OF STOPIN IT JUST DONT PAY NO ATTIAON TO THAT SHIIT THERE THAT KIND OF MEXICANS THAT DONT HAVE NO CLASS AND THERE RECUERDOS!!!!=} SOME RECUERDOS R FIINNEEE BUT THEY CAN GET ANOYIN DEN THERE DRUNK1=/
2007-06-13 23:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. and get over yourself too. It happens...big deal.
2007-06-13 23:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by luvbug7982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mexican guys are like that...
2007-06-13 23:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋