We're both girls, but she's never had a boyfriend, and accepts gay people.
I think she's been dropping hints that she wants to date and/or have BDSM sex with me, but I'm very poor at reading people. How do I find out for sure?
2007-06-13 16:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. I'm afraid that if I ask and I'm wrong, she'll get weirded out and won't be my friend anymore.
2. I would love to date her, but I don't see her sexually, so no kissing/sex/BDSM.
3. She is NOT a direct person. She's exceptionally non-communicative about important issues, she usually takes the passive role and won't even give a yes/no answer to "Do you want ____?"
2007-06-13 16:17:37 · update #1
First of all - Are you interested in her that way? If you are, and she's your friend - you should feel comfortable about asking her why she's never had a boyfriend, etc. or just make a move on her!
If you're NOT interested in her that way, just be really vocal about how much you're into boys, etc.
2007-06-13 16:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the direct answer is the best. If you like her as a friend but are not interested in her, then you need to make it clear how much you like boys. If you don't care if you lose her as a friend, then mention how you hate lesbians and would have nothing to do with them.
If you don't mind going that way, say so.
2007-06-13 16:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, the hardest road is the one we never walked, at the time she hints about sex or bf's ask her if she had ever been with a girl, being "nieve" isnt bad, let her talk and she will tell you. tell her of your experience and wait for results.
2007-06-13 16:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by lockfeller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY! You really don't know if she is being honest about having a boyfriend but really that's her business, she might not want anybody knowing her business. If shes being all up under you she might wanna play a Little game(lol) but that's if you wanna play.
Oh yea, you should always accept a person for who they are and not what they are....Have acceptance....
2007-06-13 16:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats weird. ask her she should be more straightfoward if she is an exhibitionist
2007-06-13 16:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Her Straight up WTF
2007-06-13 16:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋