Why is it that when you talk to someone and trust someone they always end up leaving??? And when they leave you feel alone and forgotten about and like you don't matter and that you are a piece of trash
2007-06-13 16:04:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sorry to burst your bubble sweetie, but it is called "LIFE". We have no control over it, even though we like to think we do.
If you feel alone and forgotten, etc., then that tells me you have a very low self-esteem, and very low self-respect.
First off, NOONE is able to make you happy, or feel good about yourself. ONLY YOU can make that happen.
Have some pride, self-respect, and self-liking in yourself.
It is sort of hard in the beginning, but only YOU are responsible for yourself.
Sure, someone will say that they'll be there forever, but YOU are the only thing that you can count on.
Have faith in yourself, love yourself, show your pride in yourself, and eventually, you will rise to the top.
Keep the faith my friend, and you shall rise to the top.
Good luck
2007-06-13 16:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that comes to mind is that you trust too easily. Perhaps you need to talk to and develop a friendship before you give so much trust. Perhaps these people do not deserve your trust.
It sounds like you give too much of yourself to early in the friendship/relationship. It's time that you hold some of yourself back. If you give everything right away, then what is there to develop?
This is important!!!! Trust needs to be earned. Give alittle and see if you can trust them....then give alittle more and see if you can trust them. You get the drift.
Don't give it all up front. Let them earn it. You can do it and you'll end up with better friends and stronger friendships.
Good luck.
2007-06-13 23:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the people who work to build up trust are usually just trying trying to get something.
People who like you, usually express what they want from you directly.
It is hard to find someone who genuinely giving. The ideal relationship is where both people give selflessly. Personally, I find I am often giving, because I need very little. And when I ask for something, I don't get much help. And if I can't get what I need I have no choice but to leave. So maybe it is not about the other person, but about what you do.
Most modern relationships tend to be based on taking what we can from each other...my opinion...blah.
2007-06-13 23:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to stop letting other people's oppinions of you affect you so much. You put too much stock into what others think of you. Remember that you are responsible for yourself. If you believe you are amazing, you will act amazing, and others will think you are amazing. So stop complaining, enjoy your life, be independant, and stop letting other's get you down. You are unique, with a personality all of your own, you will find others who mesh well with you... the rest don't matter. You are priceless. So stop beating yourself up and love yourself! If you don't, how can you expect anyone else to?
2007-06-13 23:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunkissed_bl0nde 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i dont know but rejection hurts and is real,even if the other person cant feel or see it to be true type me at my msn btorgy
maybe we can go through it all together. we all need friends
2007-06-15 21:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by chase away the me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb u should b more selective wen u pick ur friends cuz dere arent good friends
2007-06-13 23:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by I love Dionne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋