We have done everything else and Ive dated other guys and even have had another boyfriend and still never had sex because I am afraid of the pain it could cause. Is something wrong with me?
2007-06-13 16:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by confused26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't start know
you not really like this guy
2007-06-13 16:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by AngelPrincessMoniba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your apprehensive, there's a reason for it. Sex is slightly painful the first time, but I'm of the vain that, sex inside of marriage is best. When God blesses your union, everything
is a bit easier! I've made a lot of mistakes along the way in my life but have now gotten right spiritually and oh, what a difference to have the peace and joy inside that only God can give. Don't mean to preach, just being honest... :)
2007-06-13 16:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by SHANNON242 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get it over with and then it won't be painful anymore... then you well start to enjoy it... after 5 years your boyfriend should be worth enough for you to go through a little pain.
If it helps I suggest you get a little drunk first.
Nothings wrong with you... I was like that when I was younger but then I realized that its stupid to be afraid of sex. Its a completely natural thing. Have you ever had an orgasm? If not, buy yourself a vibrator and look at some porn... seriously... I'm not just being gross... you'll want to have sex after that.
2007-06-13 16:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by ssmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional pain or physical pain? It may be uncomfertable at first but relax and everything gets a lot better!!!! Should not hurt after the first time, first time may not even hurt at all, doesn't for everyone
2007-06-13 16:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by E! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are one of those women who has to be married to have sex. Have you seen an ob/gyn? Might be a good idea to get an opinion about how sex might be for you.
2007-06-13 16:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa... this guy iswayyy to controlling... if he loved you he would NEVErR do this stuff..hes acting imature and unreasonable...you will definatly find someone else.,...its best to just forget all about how much you like him and remember that you deserve sooo much better than this jerk. Tell him to either cut the crap or your gone
2016-04-01 06:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you it can be painful and you shouldn't have sex until ur married so then you can say that ur a virgin until u get married it will be a good feeliong don't have sex until ur married
2007-06-13 16:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by vball star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u r supposed 2 b nervous ur 1st time, its completewly normal. just wait until ur rdy and everything will b fine :)
2007-06-13 16:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-06-13 16:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong with you. You are perfectly normal.
2007-06-13 16:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just nervous & just tell your BF to take it slow
2007-06-13 16:07:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋