Sex on the first date, good idea or bad idea?

Answer 1

VERY bad idea!

Answer 2

Bad idea. First, it establishes a pretty meaningless relationship based on purely physical attraction. It also shows that you give up your body easily? I don't know. It's probably not the first person you've done it with then. Sex on the first date is definitely a bad idea. Actually, I'd say waiting until marriage is the best way to go.

Answer 3

It depends on what you and your partner for the night really want out of this one night. You can be thinking just sex and maybe never see her anymore. In addition, she can be think that is the beginning of something more. You decide all that you want out of it and make it clear to her. You should be aware that if you slip up you could expose yourself to STD's as well as an unwanted pregnancy. So do you think it is a bad idea to have sex on the first date now?

Answer 4

I think its best to try and go for sex on the first date (not head on, but flirt and slowy lead up to it) and if you fail then that means the girl is actually someone that might be worth having around (as long as the rest of the date went good for you); but if she gives in and even goes to foreplay on the first date, then that means she's a **** and you should dump her... after the sex of course... but then it wouldn't be considered a date, just a one-night stand....

And no, not even sex on the SECOND date is an indication of a girl worth keeping around... i guess it all depends on what kind of girl you want.

Answer 5

It relieves all doubts for the guy that you are a decent human being and that you have morals. He will then be relaxed and realize that you are a cheap throw away sex toy and if you get pregnant he will have NO trouble dumping you.He will NOT respect you although he says he does.He has to give the right answers to get into your panties and he knows the right answers. Bad idea all the way around. Wait until your married.

Answer 6

Bad. Heres just one reason out of the many:
Sometimes when you are dating someone you find out after a few dates that you don't even like the person! If you have already had sex with that person it just complicates everything.

Answer 7

its not bad but its not good either. Having sex is not a bad thing, but you want to make sure that you are being safe and using a condom right. Scientific studies have shown that there are 9 different ways to put a condom on wrong. There for you could get a girl pregnant. Well just make sure you are not pressuring anyone into doing anything bi!

Answer 8

Probably bad. On the first date, most guys are genuine yet, and with sex are just looking to do just that: get in your pants and brag to their buddies about the chick they banged on the first date. I'd wait if I were you. He might find out how lucky he is after a few dates!

Answer 9

Horrible idea. Sex should only occur when two people know each-other and love each-other, not when they've just met each-other. This could also lead to other problems like ST D's and one night stands. After one date I'm positive you don't know the person THAT well.

Answer 10

It really depends - if the chemistry is right, you are both willing (and mature enough to realize that), then it's ok.

But there's no reason that you have to rush in - Anticipation will only make things better when you do go all the way ;):)

Of course - that's the entire point of Hooking Up!
If all you want is a Friend With Benefits - then by all means, go for it ;)

Answer 11

For a long term relationship... bad. Guys usually don't stay with girls who have sex on the first date.