Can a woman still fall in love with you if you're fat?

Answer 1

As long as you have a good character.

Answer 2

Yes they can. There are many over weight people that fall in love all the time. Of course this does not mean you can be fat and get every woman you want. Some still judge by physical appearance first.

The real question to ask yourself is. If I truly love someone, should I not try to be as health as I can? That way the two of you can live a long life together?

Answer 3

Yes, before I joined the military, I used to be fat. After I joined I slimmed down and toned up. Love is about two people who see past the ephemeral and into the inner portions of a person's soul. Now, true love has been classified by many people as a triangle type of affair. It involves passion, commitment and love. Passion involves sex and sex involves attraction as well. Whether a woman does or does not find you attractive is all based on the eye of the beholder. But I know that there are women out there hurting for a sweet, intelligent and caring guy. If you have all these qualities and you make her feel loved and wanted when nobody else can or will then yes, you will indeed be beautiful in her eyes. Commitment, that is a word that supposedly spooks guys off. I have never been afraid of it but I need someone worth my time before I made such a move. But, if you think you are ready and have been doing well so far then you can find that woman wanting to spend more than just idle time with you. Now, I will be honest. I was fat and lost my weight through the military and then kept it off because I love the attention I get. I am not shallow but I do notice that more women look at me now than before. If you want options then being overweight might make your options smaller to choose from. Of course, the larger you are then the smaller your choices are. I am sorry to say, my friend, when I was fat before I took what I could get. As I progressed and lost weight, I realized that I can be picky and choosy in selecting someone. If you want to lose weight to please someone then know that in the long run they might not be around for you but you will always be around for you. Be happy with who you are or take steps to change it. I did just that and I am happier for doing just that. Plus running is fun! =) ~J~

Answer 4

To be completely honest, even if you don't care what a guy looks like, there are down sides to being with a fat guy. If a girl is very active but he can't keep up with her it might be hard for her to fall in love with. Plus, in a long term relationship, the girl will always have to worry about him getting diabetes and heart disease. As much as we'd all like to think physical appearances don't matter, when it comes to daily life, a thin healthy man is much better to love.

I don't mean rock hard abs or anything, a little flab is ok and pudgy tummies are cute. I'm just basing this answer on a guy with serious obesity.

Answer 5

I think the answer to that question depends entirely upon yourself. I have heard that "people will do whatever you expect them to do", and I believe that there is a lot of truth in that assertion.

Do you expect women to be attracted to you? Then they will be.

Do you expect women to find you interesting, or funny, or kind, or loyal, or good, or physically attractive? Then they will.

Do you expect women not to be attracted to you because you're fat? Then they won't be.

Our body image affects our self-image to far too great a degree in our society.

The same is true of women. Give me a full-figured women with a heart of gold, any day, over an hourglass-figured witch.

By the way, I'm lost a lot of weight recently, but I'm still overweight. My wife of 33 years isn't. The only reason she cares about my weight is because she is afraid I'll have a heart attack and die.

I'm blessed, but I made my own blessing with my attitude.

Answer 6

Yes. I have seen big men all of the time get women. If you are overweight, lose the weight for your own health benefits. Not for some shallow *****. In the meantime, you have to learn how to be open, flirtatious, and learn how to package yourself(dress) in order to be attractive to women.

Don't be afraid to go up and talk to women. If you get rejected or they stick their noses up at the sight of you, then don't take it personally. It is their loss and not yours. You just move on to the next woman.

If she doesn't like the way you look, keep in mind the old saying, "One woman's dog is another woman's babe".

.....and most importantly, do something and be someone that women would want to be a part of your world.

Answer 7

Absolutely! I weighed considerably less than my husband, about 180 pounds, when we met and fell in love. We've since bought a house, gotten married, had a baby... I love him completely and am very attracted to him physically and emotionally. Growing up, he would not have fit my ideal "type", since all us young girls like to drool over teen magazines, but somehow I managed to find a wonderful person wrapped up inside a body that I am totally in love with.

Answer 8

Yes it is possible.

I am considered a pretty attractive woman. I fell madly in love with someone when--the first time or so I met them--I didn't find them attractive at all and, in fact, was a little repulsed. He was monstrously tall and overwight as well. But he was nice, and charming and intelligent and and and....and so I went out with him. And the physical attraction quickly followed the emotional one. And I fell passionately in love.

Alas the relationship ended. (another post).....

But yes, the answer to your quesiton is DEFINITELY.

Answer 9

It depends on the girl and how she relates to big people and what sort of man she is attracted to. If you don't like yourself, can you expect someone to be sold on you? A guy with confidence is very sexy as long as he is mature and well-balanced (not conceited).

Some girls are tired of 'players' and want someone serious for a change. Look out for gold diggers or women who just want a babysitter boyfriend. You want to be loved for who you are. It helps to go out with oversize women, I guess. Keep the faith.

Answer 10

Yes. It has nothing to do with your body. Its the kind of person you are, that makes someone fall in love with you.

Answer 11

Why not? It really is what's on the inside that counts, and heck, there might even be some fat girls out there who want a guy like them.