Go to a church to meet a guy, your odds of finding a decent guy are higher.
2007-06-13 15:10:21
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answered by I try 3
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One of the key elements here is that you are comfortable with you! Liking yourself is paramount to having a strong, appealing presence to the opposite sex. This is a very good thing! Since you have not mentioned a specific guy that you are interested in, I am assuming this is a general question. Getting "a guy" to like you is most likely NOT your issue. My question to you is: "Are you getting out in your community?" "Do you either belong to groups, or do things that hold your interest with others?" In other words, are you in a place socially to be able to meet guys who have similar interests and values? For example: If you play tennis, then join a club. Get out and do things. One of the DANGERS I have found with Internet consumption, is that it really does isolate you. The only real way you are going to meet a guy who finds you ADORABLE and IRRESISTIBLE, is to be physically where he is. While you can meet some great people on-line, and the seeming availability is enormous, the reality is that it's better to just be out in the community engaging normally. Your use of the word, "decent" also gives a GREAT clue about you. It speaks about your values, and ideals, or what you find attractive and engaging in a man. So, if you want this kind of guy to notice you, go to places where these kinds of men are. Usually bars, clubs and even the Internet is not a likely place to meet a "decent" man. I think your biggest issue here is getting out in your community and timing. One of these days a GREAT guy is going to see YOU and be smitten! It will happen. You can count on it!
2007-06-13 15:16:57
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answered by Just a writer at the sea... 3
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If you want to find a decent guy, you need to do two main things in your life. 1) Be approachable and 2) define what kind of guy you want to be with.
Once you figure out what you want in a man, you need to ask the important questions to any man you date in the future in order to see if he fits what you are looking for. (Example: Do you drink regularly? How is your relationship with your mother?)
Another thing you need not do is look for someone who is perfect. He (or she for that matter) doesn't exist. Be picky, but not overly picky.
And last, get out of the house more often. The guys aren't going to knock on your door and ask if you are at home and are you available.
2007-06-13 15:14:08
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answered by davester1970 7
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Simple,
Be who you are. When you focus on getting someone to like you, which is impossible without being phony, it becomes obvious what your doing.
You say your pretty, friendly, and have a great personality so relax. Your self-confident and thats great. When you submit a positive vibe, the majority of the time youll get one back. Believe me, when you let things happen naturally, youll expect things sooner than you naturally expected.
2007-06-13 15:09:39
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answered by Anonymous
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By being descent. People almost always get exactly what they're looking for. Be sure that you're actually looking for a descent guy and you're not letting superficial things blind you.
The majority of people who say they can't find the type of person they're looking for aren't really looking for what they think.
2007-06-13 15:07:33
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answer #5
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answered by elurle 6
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Be a decent girl
2007-06-13 15:07:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Be a decent girl.
2007-06-13 15:07:35
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answer #7
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answered by chewybean29 3
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well u get a guy to like u by flirting
2007-06-13 15:09:55
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answer #8
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answered by alex 2
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Just live your life hun. It will come when you dont expect it to
2007-06-13 15:08:02
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answered by zxzkelzxz 2
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if you dress sexy all the guys wanna be with you
2007-06-13 15:08:17
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answered by Harinder Gill 2
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